Christianity Oasis Forum

[notjustanumber]

Please pray that my husband will be more compassionate. If I am having a problem or hurt or issue and it is something that wouldn't hurt or be a problem for him he comes down on me really hard about it or says really insensative things and I wish so much that he could be a safe loving place for me to go when I hurt. Then I shut down because when it gets to that point anything I say will make him more upset and he won' t even try to see or even ask why I am upset or anything he just assumes it's all my fault. He refuses to see how he could have any part in anything. We had a terrible day with this yesterday and i literally had a neverous breakdown. I had something that was really hurting me and then he said a bunch of insensitive things and I had a bunch of panic attacks. Please pray that God will help this problem.

[Debbie]

I'm so sorry. I've been in that situation often in the past with my husband. But God seems to be working on his heart so he's so much better and supportive now. But I still tend to keep hurts etc to myself, as he's not a Christian and I just don't feel comfortable sharing certain things with him. Plus he's a guy and they just don't get it most of the time. I pray for God to fill you with His love and peace and strength, and for a mighty touch upon your husband and your marriage. God bless!

[notjustanumber]

Thank you....God bless:)

[Dora]

I'm so sorry for your struggle. I know how difficult it can make every day be difficult to enjoy. Praying for you and him right now.



And yes you are not just a number. You are so much more than just a number. You're His precious daughter whom He loves so dearly and whom cares about this situation and every situation. Even ever single hurt, big or small.