Christianity Oasis Forum

[cassiev]

Right now I am in a tuff place in my life. My husband is being investigated by NCIS for child porn and our kids was taken away and are now in fostercare. I am doing all that i can to get my kids back so that we may move back to our home state with my parents and get a divorce. I know that God has a plan and i must trust in him.
My husband has always been controlling and was emotionally abusive twords me. I tryed to leave in the past but he told me i could not take the kids if I left and i was not going to leave my kids. I have always tryed to protect my kids and now I have to fight for them. I am trying to stay strong. I had my husbands command issue a MPO to protect me and the kids. He keeps wanting me to drop it so he can come back home. I am staying strong and will not drop it. All this just happend not even two weeks ago and with Christmas coming up and being so far from friends and family it is getting harder and harder. Have custody hearing at the end of Jan. so it is going to be a long holiday. I am trying to find a job bc i have been a stay at home mom for 4 yrs, but so far have not had any luck. I am trying to not get depressed and stay positive and focus of my faith and my health. I know that i have to Trust in God and know that he has a plan for me and my children.

[Dora]

Praying for you cassiev. What a difficult spot you are in. I can feel your heart ache. May the good Lords will be done in all things.

[popples]

Hon I have been fostering children for 17years and been in and out of court for simular things with different children. First of all always remember the Judge is only looking out for whoever has the childrens best interest at heart, allso you can find out if you are not with your husband why you cant be sole carer of the children. You are not the one that has done wrong....ask questions and please any futher help I can be dont hesitate to ask....

[cassiev]

Thank you both. Right now I am trying to get in counselling and I will have to take some classes. I know that right now i do not have my kids bc they said i should have known about everything and they say I did not protect my kids. I know i have protect my kids and that I should get them back... the waiting is the hardest right now, that and how much I miss them. they are only 3 and 2.