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Re: Stepping Stone 1

Postby Dora » Sun Oct 30, 2011 9:07 am

Oh Kassi *hug* I feel your pain.

I'm glad you are aware of how you are feeling.

My dad didn't want me either. But God does. He wants you. He is not like your dad. Gods love never ends. He is the author of love as spoken about in Corinthians. He says real love never ends. His love is real. You can't fix the relationship with your dad but you can work on your relationship with God. Which can fill any void you have in your life. He can fix your broken heart.

Here if you need to talk.

*hug* *hug* *hug*

May God bless you dear one. Hang in there and take care.
*angel7* Sorrow looks back, Worry looks around, But faith looks up! Live simply, love generously, care deeply, speak kindly and trust in our Creator who loves us.
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Re: Stepping Stone 1

Postby Bearer Of Light » Sun Oct 30, 2011 10:40 am

Hi Kassi,

I read what you shared and want to thank you for writing in here, and having the courage to seek God's guidance and to tell us about what you are experiencing. I'm fairly new in here myself although I've just finished the 14 days a couple days ago. If there is something I can share with you that will give you a bit of hope for having joined in here it may be this:

After my 14 days, I have discovered so many new things and the way in which to resolve the problems I originally came in here with. The support and insight from my brothers and sisters in Jesus has been amazing. My problems were not similar, but I was given the tools which I need to proceed. Pray to God for enlightenment and for wisdom and the tools which you need to get through this difficult experience. Maybe your father is just afraid. Fear manifests in many different ways. Seek truth from God and He will guide you in this situation. Trust in Him and the answers will present themselves to you.

do your 14 steps with an open mind and heart, and you will see :) smile when you look in the mirror and you will feel a great change within you. Big hugs and love to you sister in Jesus. God Bless you.

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Re: Stepping Stone 1

Postby momof3 » Sun Oct 30, 2011 10:06 pm

Hi Kassi, *hug*

Im so thankful the Lord has led you here to seek answers..and healing. Little sister in Jesus, your dad's leaving is NOT your fault. Some of us learn to love but none of us do it perfectly. And, some have not learned very well how to love at all. This isnt your fault, its the enemy of our souls..and, human selfishness...and/or the lack of the Lord's love and healing working in other's lives. Then, as Pine pointed out, we see God the way we see our earthly fathers. He will not leave you...ever.

Im praying for you along this path. You arent here by mistake. Take in what the Holy Spirit would show you through these steps..and dont give up. All of this pain you are carrying is a heavy load. Jesus will take it from you. He loves you so very very much.

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