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by **John Stanko** » Mon Jun 14, 2010 1:14 pm

I have joined the counseling. Today I have read the word and talked to a Lady about Jesus.

I still have feelings of despair. Worried about the future too much, and wanting to be healed, to be my old jolly self. Jesus is coming soon and I'm worried about being ready.

I don't want to fear because the Bible say's the fearful will not inherit the kingdom of God, and that scares me. It's like a paradox.

by **momof3** » Mon Jun 14, 2010 1:20 pm

hiya John..

i wanna tell ya this...He understands our humaness. He understands. He wants you to lay this down at His feet. You are saved..You are His. This fear you are carrying..He knows its there..and He's not looking for a way to keep you out of heaven. Lay this at His feet..He understands you. He is merciful..and just. Fear is being whispered to you....replace them with what the Lord has done for you..what Christ has done for you. Surrender, my brother, to His will..no matter what it is..it is good.

You are in many many prayers, bro.

in Jesus,
luv momo *Halo*

by **John Stanko** » Mon Jun 14, 2010 1:47 pm

Thanks Momo, Love You too. Will lay it at His Feet.

by **Dora** » Mon Jun 14, 2010 2:00 pm

Hi John!

I'm so glad you are here.

Something about you just makes me smile.

Keep giving it to Him John. If you take it back and try to carry it yourself, just give it back. Keep trusting Him John. He's got you in all this.

Praying for you! *Pray*

God loves ya brother and so do I!

by **xxJILLxx** » Mon Jun 14, 2010 2:19 pm

Hi John,

Welcome to Oasis.

Just wanted to add that the more you dig into the Word and into that intimate relationship with Him the less anxiety and worries you will have.

God is much BIGGER than our worries, just let them go and hand it over and trust He will take care of you because He loves you very much.

Hope to see more of you.

God bless
♥Jill

by **John Stanko** » Mon Jun 14, 2010 2:21 pm

Thanks Blossom Glad you are here for me. i'm trying to quit smoking too, need prayer in this.

by **mlg** » Mon Jun 14, 2010 2:38 pm

Hello again John

Just know that God says that anyone who calls upon His name and believes in Jesus shall be saved...my friend...if you know Jesus and love Him..you are guaranteed salvation.

Keep seeking John...things are going to get better. Chin up.

Take care and God Bless

by **Mackenaw** » Mon Jun 14, 2010 4:41 pm

Hello John

God bless you this day.

It is good to see you again. It was nice to see you in COOL Church last night.

If I may, what Step did you read today? It's helpful for those of us that are walking with you to know which Step you are on so we can refer back to the Study and what was discussed, and possibly offer help if there is something you have a question about within the said "Step".

God bless and keep you, John.
In His love,
Sister Mack

by **John Stanko** » Mon Jun 14, 2010 11:08 pm

God Bless You Sister Mack, and it was step two, and i really didn't get it, it said surround myself with things that will remind me of my purpose o something to that effect, can you explain this?

by **Mackenaw** » Mon Jun 14, 2010 11:59 pm

Hello John

God bless you this day.

I think the portion of Step 2 that you are referring to is:

to assist you as you sojourn down THE PATH, it is important that you surround yourself with things that remind you of your purpose. Start putting up notes to yourself, visual reminders that keep you focused on serving the Lord better. These are positive reinforcements that will become part of you. While you're taking your steps through THE PATH, if anything touches your heart in a positive way, write it down and put it up someplace where you will see it often.

Well the purpose for doing this Counseling Program can vary by person, but if my memory serves me, you had said you have dealt with depression for quite some time. God is The Healer, therefore, any means by which you are reminded to think on God and His love for you is a good thing. I would imagine that hope is stirring up in you, because that is something The Holy Spirit blesses us with so very much. Hope is something mankind reaches for in times of great need. So, what a combo -- a need accompanied by hope. Woooohooooo!!!

Playing Christian music, really soothes the soul -- so check it out.

Write yourself little messages. I know, it may sound silly initially, but it really does help. We all need reminders. Put one in your wallet, or pocket, or next to your coffee pot, or in your briefcase or in the front of your Bible.

I love the Word of God so very much, and the scriptures shared within each step are a great way to feed your mind/soul the Word of God. Write out one or two from each step on a piece of paper and stick it in your Bible. Remember to turn to those scriptures in your Bible and read them.

Here's a scripture passage from from Step 2:
Romans 5:2-4, plus I added verse 1 also, so below see Romans 5:1-4.
Therefore being justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ:
By whom also we have access by faith into this grace wherein we stand, and rejoice in hope of the glory of God. And not only so, but we glory in tribulations also: knowing that tribulation worketh patience; And patience, experience; and experience, hope.

Hope this helps, John.

God bless and keep you.
In His love,
Sister Mack

by **John Stanko** » Tue Jun 15, 2010 1:05 am

Yes sister Mack, helped out alot, you are a Blessing to Me, like a guardian angel. I thank god for sending you my way.

I sing praise to him on my way to work, and praises to him on my way back home.

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