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Postby mlg » Fri Jan 15, 2010 8:36 am

inneed I know this is a very difficult time for you sis....but just know the Comforting presence of the Lord is surrounding you and will help you get past the pain. It will take some time to heal sis...God knows this sis...and He will show you how to let go of the hurt...I am praying for you and your family sis.

Matthew 11:28-29
28 Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
29 Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.

God be with you sis.

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Postby TonyTree » Fri Jan 15, 2010 10:20 am

Trust in our Father for your healing...don't burden yourself with questions like, "will I ever be able to...?", "how can I...?, "why did he...? Just allow God to change you little by little, even though it can be painful. One day you'll be able to forgive...in the meantime, stay in His word and in the fellowship of other believers, and you may want to do COOL's counselling program again, that is if you've already done it once, and love your children alot every day. God is with you, sister
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Postby Tam » Fri Jan 15, 2010 3:01 pm

inneed
SO sorry for all the pain you are having to endure at this time. My prayers go up for you and your children and I also pray that ex will turn and find what it is he is looking for in Jesus Christ.
You said:
Don't know if I will ever be able trust another person again but I am praying about that. God will have to fix that in me, I don't know how.

Let GOd begin to heal you heart again. He is wanting you to give it all to him so that He can do what needs to be done in you.
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Postby inneed » Mon Jan 18, 2010 12:09 am

Thanks Guys,

I have done the steps but will do them again. I am healing everyday. I can see the Lord's hand in all of this. I know he has a plan for my life and I am very excited about it. I just want whatever he has for me. I know the answer to trusting. I will trust God with all my heart and not worry about trusting people. If I trust God he will lead me to the right places and people at the right time.

I praise God for his grace, mercy, protection and deliverance.

He is sooooooo good!
May God bless us all
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Postby momof3 » Mon Jan 18, 2010 1:24 am

Amen inneed..Im trusting Him right with you. Prayers are rising, my sister. He has an awesome plan for your life.

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Postby mlg » Mon Jan 18, 2010 8:33 am

Hey inneed, I completed the steps again about a week ago for the second time. Each time I have done the steps, I've used them to help me heal from different issues...and what a difference it makes. I can't wait to see what God shows you on your second time through. :) Good stuff.

It's great to see you praising God sis. This is something that keeps us going...praising Him in the storm.

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Postby deetu » Mon Jan 18, 2010 10:11 am

Hi inneed,
It's so hard when we see loved ones chose the wrong choices. That free will thing again.

I just wanted to say that if you did make that word curse of never trusting someone again, to break it in Jesus's name so it doesn't stick with you. We don't realize how our words can effect our lives.

Also, after doing this study again, you should look into the Many Called Few Chosen study. http://www.christianityoasis.com/ManyCa ... /Forum.htm God can move you forward now. I think you will love it.

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Postby inneed » Sun Mar 07, 2010 10:53 pm

God has been so good!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
My ex and I have reached a separation agreement and it should be signed next week.

I have never been happier or felt more free. I am praying daily about the trust issues and I know God will see me through them.

I don't have any anger toward my ex. I actually feel sorry for him and pray for him. How miserable he must be not knowing the love of the savior!!!!!!!!!!!

I now know God has great things in store for me and my kids! I just can't wait to see his plan unfold in my life!

To God be all the praise and the Glory!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Postby mlg » Sun Mar 07, 2010 11:06 pm

So glad to see you are now finding your joy in the Lord sis...all things work for His glory. Keep praying for you ex...may he one day find the love of the Lord and the forgiveness He offers.

luv ya innneed...keep in touch sis
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