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Postby inneed » Tue Dec 15, 2009 11:13 pm

Thanks everybody!

I am sure that my savior is in control. I have completely turned hy husband over to God. I do pray for him daily. I know that all of this is part of God's plan and I am open to whatever he wants. This is the 1st time in my life that it isn't about what I want but what God wants. I always believed that he wanted me to keep this marriage together no matter what but now I don't know what he wants and I am okay with that. I just want to follow him and I know that whatever he has for me will be better than my life has been for about 12 or 15 years (since I found out about his sexual addiction). I have prayed constantly for 2 years for God to fix this one way or another and I believe he is. I am at peace at least for right now.

Keep praying and I am glad to be back at Oasis too.
May God bless us all
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Postby mlg » Tue Dec 15, 2009 11:17 pm

awwww a beautiful word Peace....and you've got it sis...and if your at peace then your on your way to healing and moving forward. *hug* Though the path may not be known yet...it will be soon.

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Postby inneed » Wed Dec 23, 2009 2:19 am

God is revealing his plan piece by piece. The situation is worse than I thought and I am thanking God for getting me out of it. Please pray for my children and pray that the Lord gives me wisdom in handling the legal things I need to handle. Please pray that he supernaturally takes care of things because I am at a total loss at this point.
May God bless us all
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Postby deetu » Thu Dec 24, 2009 3:26 am

inneed, I just felt like I was to tell you that God loves that you know He is taking care of you and to trust what He tells you about what is to happen when it happens.

It is times like these when I wish that I could hug a person for real to give them loving support. But this will have to do *Hug9*
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Postby momof3 » Thu Dec 24, 2009 5:17 am

sis, He is with you. He will guide you. Im standing in prayer with you and God's perfect will be done.

In Jesus,
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Postby morningrain » Thu Dec 24, 2009 5:46 am

Praying for you in all this and know its not easy, good to see you have the Lord's peace with you. The Lord is with you. :)

God bless you inneed
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Postby inneed » Wed Dec 30, 2009 11:27 pm

Thanks for all your prayers and loving words of encouragement. Still don't know anything. Right now I am just waiting on the Lord. I know it is truly over and God has delivered his child. I am praying that he takes care of my son and daughter. The situation my soon to be exhusband is in is truly demonic and my children do not need to be exposed to it. Please pray for their protection.
May God bless us all
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Postby momof3 » Sat Jan 02, 2010 11:14 am

Hi inneed..Im standing with you in prayer, my sister. May the Lord's perfect will be done in all of your lives. The good things is your children are His too. Im praying the Lord would guide and protect them as well. He knows where they are and He knows their hearts. Keep praying for them, sis. He is faithful. No matter what the situation looks like at this time, He is there and has a plan in it all. He is with your children. Keep fighting the good fight, as you are now. One day, one prayer at a time.


God bless you, sis. standing with you in this.

His perfect will be done.

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Postby Dora » Sat Jan 02, 2010 11:32 am

*Pray* In agreement for protection over your children. Gods will be done.
Know that others will pray that do not post.

luv ya *hug*
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Postby deetu » Sat Jan 02, 2010 3:32 pm

*Hug9*
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Postby inneed » Fri Jan 15, 2010 12:06 am

Thanks for everyone's prayers. Please pray for my soon to be ex husband. He is truly lost. At this point I am not sure I ever really knew him although we were married for 25 years. I have found out that he is involved with both men and women. He wanted to have an open relationship and believes that my christian beliefs kept him from getting what he wanted. He has found a woman who will have an open relationship with him both together and alone. He is planning to move out of state to be with her. This has desperately hurt my children. The devastation is far reaching.

I am healing a little at a time with Gods help, love and support. I think the separation agreement will be signed in the next couple of weeks. I just wish I could take the pain away for my kids.

Don't know if I will ever be able trust another person again but I am praying about that. God will have to fix that in me, I don't know how.

I am sad that the love of my life is lost and has a depraved mind but I have turned him over to God. He is all in his hands and there is no turning back.
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Postby lizzie » Fri Jan 15, 2010 12:32 am

inneed sister *hug*

How very sorry I am for the pain that you and your children are going thru right now. But I am so confident that God will bring all of you the healing and peace of mind and heart that eludes you now.

I will be praying for you sister, for your children and your husband.

Your husband has chosen, and now you must choose to do what is necessary for your children and yourself. God has you in His hands and will give you the strength you need to get thru this.

Blessings to you and I am a PM away if u ever need a friend.
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