Christianity Oasis Forum

[goldieluvs]

I have been trying to figure out what God wants me to do in my current situation. I'm tired. Im trying to capture bad thoughts and renew my mind every day and walk the path God has chosen for me, but sometimes the road seems oh so long. And I'm tired and lost. I just dont know what to do anymore. Go the extra mile? Throw him out? Im tired of feeling like I dont know what to do. I'm tired of draining my entire finances trying to keep us both up. Mostly Im tired of him being on the couch doing nothing to help himself. Ive been a praying. Course most peeps know im single here and Lord please forgive me, but if I have to put up with what i have in my life now,, then i dont want it. I've asked peeps from time to time and gotten various answers without giving me a real answer as in up to me to discern. Problem is i cant see the forest for the trees. Im just tired of trying. Is it bad to give up? I dont know what God wants. I honestly dont. And Im tired of it all. Well, i guess ive done enough whining for one day. Lord please shine a light so i know what to do. One tired goldie here.

[realtmg]

sis,
I think you have the answer. I really do. Your call sis.
Ask yourself this question. What has he done to help himself, the situation and you?

May God's will be done.

Luv Ya

Real

[follower_of_Jesus]

willingness is the key here goldie, in order to help him he first must step up and become willing to help himself. he must find the power from within to stand on his own two feet again.

I feel from my own standpoint that you have already done all you can do, now it's time to set a final deadline and stick to it no matter how hard it is.

you and your situation are in my prayers sis.

[goldieluvs]

Ty real and follower. The deadline is end of August. I told him last night. He was supposed to cut grass and wash dishes and call about a job he had supposedly applied for. I come home and nothing has been done. Ima gonna call magistrate's office to find out what i gotta do to get him out and if hes not doing anything to help himself and be employed by then then they are gonna come and get him and make him get out. And yall are right hes gotta be doing something to help himself. Thanks for the advice GBU.