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[Christnundrconstruxn]

Seen this on my fb page thanks to JM'S ministry for the messages she brings

Joyce Meyer Ministries:
Don't judge others. God likes variety and we've all got our own little brand of "strangeness."

Love it AND it is SO true
Cuc

[Christnundrconstruxn]

hello all, been a little while since I posted here
I know we are not suppose to hate....BUT......I HATE satan!!!
I have read a few new members post and seen how he twist our minds from believing bad of our spouses, to DOING bad of our spouses as well as feeding our minds with his BULL that we are not any good or that we are not anything that will AMOUNT to anything!!!
You see I read one post and it set off a alarm that he was doing it to me, you see for a week or so I have allowed satan to pull me down and feed on my depression but as I told this person he will NEVER get a complete hold because my faith in God is a WHOLE HECK OF A LOT STRONGER than he will EVER be!!!
so BRING IT satan!!! you can drag me through the mud all you want......
I'M STILL WASHED CLEAN!!!!
PLEASE pray for the ones I speak of, we don't need names God knows the couple I speak of and he knows the new daughter he has as well, this is my request for them.
God bless all of my Oasis family
Cuc

[Christnundrconstruxn]

hello my Oasis family,
I come this morning with a HEAVY heart, yes some of that is due to my personal issues but that is not what bothers me most this morning.
You see satan is attacking the one place that I saw mostly out of his grasp
The Oasis You see when I first came here I thought (first impression) nah this ain't real these people are not this loving and forgiving.......over the next year and a half I learned that it IS real that there REALLY IS people who can and will love UNCONDITIONALLY as well as FORGIVE as they wish to be forgiven..........but then slowly I have seen a big part of those fall away or just go dormant and as this happened I saw "newbies" (see I can call them that now because I'm not new anymore) and I tried to carry on that love and forgiveness only to be ignored belittled or attacked by SOME NOT ALL and the ones that held on....well even some of those fell away as well.
NOW PLEASE if you feel this is directed at YOU please know it is not even if you fall into one of these discriptions I am directing this at ONE.....AND ONLY ONE!!!!! SATAN you ARE A LIAR!!!!!!! A CHEAT!!!!! and TOTALLY WORTHLESS!!!!!
I'm sorry to use this expression but it is needed to get my point made,
I'LL BE DAMNED IF I'LL ALLOW YOU TO DESTROY ANYMORE OF THIS WONDERFUL GOD LOVING SITE!!!!
CRAWL BACK IN YOUR HOLE WHERE YOU BELONG!!!!!!!
With that said,
The ones that have been here longer than me GET UP!!! the "newbies" rise up!!!
Let's put this site back to UNCONDITIONAL, FORGIVING ALL.....LOVE
You see that was the one thing I learned VERY quickly here, love as Jesus loves and forgive as our Lord forgives us!!
and I feel satan is slowly trying to chip that all away.
PLEASE do not allow satan to take away or belittle anymore of what this site was built for.......GOD'S LOVE!!

And a note to those who are responsable for the upkeep and guarding of this site, may God grant you the strength and ability to carry it to the end, I have the utmost love and respect for you guys for doing all of what you do day in and day out...I ask the same from you...please do not give up, you touch SO MANY lives it is crazy good!!

God bless all of my Oasis family and please know I value EACH and EVERY friend I have made here!

[realtmg]

Bro.
This is why you post under " Called Christians". Your post have had and continue to help several of us here.
It seems to me that your growth have been wisdom and small steps upward.
Just maybe your calling has arrived? Getting closer?

Thanks and luv ya Brother,

Real

[Christnundrconstruxn]

One of the post today reminded me that I wrote this and posted it as a note on my facebook, I'd like to share it here as well
God bless and please take some time to take in God's little blessings

You know in todays world it is SO populated and for sure so busy, I sit and think of how we have so much to make our lives "easy" now days such as microwaves, remotes on our cable tv's, and our cars are getting smarter than we are...knowing when the oil needs changed, a tire is low or even parking itself!!
And DON'T EVEN get me started about cell phones and texting!!!

BUT we are so busy busy busy!!!

How many of us stop to sit on the porch with a friend in the rockin chairs of yesterday??

Or go sit on the river bank NOT to fish or think of the bad in life....just to watch the river go by???

How many times in the last week did you ask someone "hows your day" or "how have you been" and REALLY WAITED FOR AN ANSWER!!! or CARED WHAT THE ANSWER WAS!!! or when ask these questions you were honest because it was a friend asking that REALLY WANTED TO KNOW...........come on BE HONEST!!!!

You see we all are being swallowed up by the ways of the world instead of remembering to stop and smell the flowers and enjoy the coffee, you see as for the flowers we instead are looking at the weeds growing around them or the grass needs cut and the coffee....oh it's bad for you or it's so exspensive oh and what is does to your teeth.....STOP!!!!!

ENJOY THE MOMENT!!!! as well as the friends and family that may or may NOT be there the next day.

You see we ALL are guilty of forgetting the true happiness of life, it's not about having it all or being a certain weight or anything else for that matter!! it's about realizing the true blessings God has given you in life!!! your family, friends as well as the blessing of all God has given you (slow rivers, trees blowin in the wind, kids playing at the park) NOT what you think you need!! (please know I am as guilty as anyone of not enjoying God's blessings)

I have SO MUCH more to say but.......I gotta go I am busy and need to finish........"just kidding"

I felt led to remind us all take the time to enjoy life and the ones God blessed us with, NEWS FLASH!!!! all those other things will still be there the next day!! so if any of you have an extra rockin chair or needs a ride to the river let me know :-)

God bless you all

[xxJILLxx]

AMEN!

Love ya!

♥Jill

[Christnundrconstruxn]

WOW Jill I must have REALLY made an impression.....to the beach AND a hike after reading this
Just kidding I hope you FULLY enjoyed the time
Cuc

[Christnundrconstruxn]

Hey all
Rough week last week.....and today cruddy's attacking and he's attacking HARD
Just need prayers
Thanks

[Christnundrconstruxn]

Hello,
I don't wish to discuss all of the bad right now I came here today for another reason.
And I want to start by saying I mean NO offense to anyone regarding this topic, it is ONLY an opinion.

Some here have said things that got me thinking about certain things and one is a believer that is not TOTALLY on fire for God, some say it is not possible or that they don't really want to follow God they are only "pretending"
This analogy came to mind....when you go to the swimming pool do you just run and dive in or do you kinda linger dipping your toes to get a feel or walk to the edge to see how deep, you see there are all these types and it is my opinion that it is no different in our walks.
You see I grew up going to church and hearing about God BUT the streets got ahold of me and slowly I fell away from the church.......BUT I NEVER fell away from my beliefs, I was even ashamed of where I was and I know this because anytime God was brought up and I was doing the bad things I didn't like it and some would say I was ashamed of my beliefs NO I was ashamed of what I was and knew God didn't want me there, but just as He gives us all the freedom of choice I chose to stay where I was BUT it did NOT change my thoughts or beliefs or Gods love for me.
And because of that I believe that is what brought me back to the path I'm on now, BUT here again am I a "all in Christian" sadly no...BUT that does NOT change my heart and I choose to be where I am instead of saying well I am not FULLY committed so I guess I should not try....We all fall short of the glory of God.
I guess my whole reason for this post is to remind us ALL that we are to do our best to love as well as lead all others to Christ.....even if it is at their speed and not ours.
Some turn all their life over to the Lord instantly and others not so much
Beauty is created differently......a sunset is created in minutes yet a diamond takes years.......
All we can do is pray that we lead as many as we can to Him for Him to save.
May God bless us all
Cuc

[realtmg]

Nice post Brother.

GBU

Real

[popples]

hon I have to say that I understand what you are going through but I allso understand as a wife too because my husband does the same. One thing I learnt about addiction is we can only stop for ourselves no matter what the addiction and its eay for others to write comments but I understand that the addiction is in your head day in day out. Only God can change that. as for your wife she feels she is second to your addiction, my husband too looks at porn and I feel that comes before me, I feel he needs that before he can love me. You are doing the right thing by trying and trying again. Dont loose sight of God and just keep trying my prayers are with you and you can pm me whenever you need a friend.

[Christnundrconstruxn]

sorry one has nothing to do with the other here, this is in regards to some other comments of a few others here (nothing bad) but mostly it is just as I put in the ending, not everyones faith changes in a day.

I guess my whole reason for this post is to remind us ALL that we are to do our best to love as well as lead all others to Christ.....even if it is at their speed and not ours.
Some turn all their life over to the Lord instantly and others not so much
Beauty is created differently......a sunset is created in minutes yet a diamond takes years.......
All we can do is pray that we lead as many as we can to Him for Him to save.

As for me and my ex, sadly it is over and done with and has been for a while with my addiction only being an excuse but it is ok it was not meant to be and I should have seen that early on, as for being second it was me that felt left out but I continued to stay and try, I would have MUCH rather had her
God bless and thank you both for your replies
Cuc