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Feeling guilty about asking......

Postby living4Him » Sun Sep 19, 2010 4:01 pm

When I found the Oasis I was in crisis mode and I still am. I hesitate to talk in chat rooms because I don't want anyone to think I am seeking attention. I keep asking for help and it is freely and cheerfully being given to me which I appreciate greatly. However, I feel guilty for taking up other's time. I hope you will all understand and forgive me for being so needy at this time.....I don't mean to be but but I am physically alone here and feeling very isolated. If you ever feel like I am intruding or taking up too much time just let me know and I will back down. This is the only place I have found that has offered me any real hope. I want to stay but do not want to offend. I appreciate your prayers and guidance........ :cry:
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Postby ciny » Sun Sep 19, 2010 4:50 pm

Hi Living4him
This is what Oasis is for is to get help for our selfs and heal i am praying for you we are hear to help one another we are a family you are not taking up other peoples time.
we all suport eachother hear so chatt away when you need to sis have a God blessed evening in the Lord Living4him
God bless Ciny
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Postby mlg » Sun Sep 19, 2010 8:03 pm

living4him, we all need encouragement and friends...and I think that as long as you are truly seeking to move forward and do what you need to do to heal...then God will provide you all the encouragement and support you need....there's a difference between needing the support and being selfish...my sister I truly believe you need the support because God led you here so we could all be there to encourage you on the tough days. Never hesitate to ask us for prayer or just a kind word. We are here for you.

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Postby deetu » Sun Sep 19, 2010 9:37 pm

*hug5*

Now is a time of confusion when truth starts taking over the lies. It is better to ask then to struggle through on your own. We are here to help *BigGrin*
So don't be afraid to ask or seek.

Keep doing the study. You will find a time when something will be hard for you personally. This will be important for you to push through and not give up.

Doing good *ThumbsUp*
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Postby Dora » Sun Sep 19, 2010 10:16 pm

aw living4him you are such a sweet heart. You are no bother at all. I enjoy your company. Willing to talk anytime you need a friend. :)
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