Christianity Oasis Forum

[kikikiki1939]

Hey does anyone know how to stop swearing, hanging out with bad "friends",fighting,cursing,taking the father and sons names in vain, commiting adultery, looking at porn, masturbating...(embarassing)... ETC? if so please comment or contact me on chat.plzzzzzzzzzzzzzz!!!

[mlg]

Hey kiki welcome to the counseling forum. I'd like to suggest that you begin with this 14 day program.

http://www.christianityoasis.com/cccc/forum.htm

The answers you seek can be found within, so check it out.

Praying for you.

luv ya

[Lani]

Hey Kiki

I wish to commend you for taking a stand against the things that shadow God's Grace in your life.


The best place to begin, it seems, would be the 14 day CCCC Study. It will cover many (if not all) of these areas and you will find the answers you seek within the program. Please know there are no "quick fixes" brother. It all takes time, but each step is a success because it is one step closer to His intended path for you.

During the study, you will be invited to consider starting a journal here. This will allow you to express your thoughts on each day, and receive feedback and encouragement from some of us.

The choice is yours.... I pray you find the strength to continue in this direction.

The link... if you are so lead and so choose: http://www.christianityoasis.com/cccc/forum.htm

On a side note, embarrassment is a direct result of judgement bro...and that isn't something you need to concern yourself with. He knows your heart and we luv ya. No one is without faults of some kind and anyone who claims such is only fooling themselves.

Answers will come, if that is what you seek.

Prayers are with you!

Peace and Luv in Christ,

Lani

[momof3]

Hi kiki.....welcome to the CCCC program. Hoping you take advantage of what the Holy Spirit would show you through these steps. Asking for help and admitting the problems you struggle with is bringing it all to the Light of the Lord...and in the His truth you will find freedom from these things one step at a time. As my sisters have said here, it doesnt happen over night, but it does start with a decision..and the choice is yours.

Praying for you bro and will walk with ya every step of the way, but know that Jesus is the answer, bro. Seek Him through these steps and He will show you and grow you in His spirit.

standing with you in prayer, kiki.

in Jesus,
momo

[comfy]

not to be self-righteous against other people > this can help a lot

if we're embarrassed, this can be because we're trying to keep our own self image going, maybe

and to love God beautifully sweetly, in His beautifully wonderful goodness of love . . . this is so better than the stuff we get into

so . . . be encouraged that we can do better than the stuff we are in and are trying to get for ourselves > part of why we are cursing and masterbating etc. is because we are trying to get what is not good enough for us > You, God, have better . . . so, thank You for caring for us better than we care about ourselves, with standards better than just what to do and not to do . . .

"'Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me,
for I am gentle and lowly in heart,
and you will find rest for your souls.'"
. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .(Matthew 11:29)

So, we all need to do better, kiki

"He can have compassion on those who are ignorant and going astray,
since he himself is also subject to weakness."
. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .(Hebrews 5:2)

So, now you can feel for others.

[Tam]

Hi kiki Glad you are doing the CCCC steps. I to agree with eveything said above. This will take time but God is faithful if you will allow Him to be. Hang in there and trust Jesus
Tam

[Dora]

Good to see a fellow Christian seeking to please God.

The counseling is awesome. Hope you give it a go.

Be patient with yourself and allow God to work out these things in you. (preaching to my self right there too )