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Postby mlg » Mon Mar 09, 2009 1:05 pm

As I've offered to you before. The counseling steps will help you with this. Do you really want healing sis? If so, it's time to start.

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Postby Angelbaby5460 » Fri Mar 13, 2009 9:39 am

Yes I really do want healing... Its just that time and internet access are both rare at the moment. I went to WinterJam last night it was good. I did not want to go but forced myself to go. Some of the songs really hit me and I guess thats what I needed.
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Postby mlg » Fri Mar 13, 2009 11:46 am

How about print out a few of the counseling steps and do them when you can't get online.

Good to see you enjoying the winterjam.

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Postby Angelbaby5460 » Sat Mar 14, 2009 10:57 pm

I might we will see... Things have been up and down lately more down then up but not much new there. I relapsed the other day but am doing a lil better now. But now things have become worse and I am worried I am going to lose someone I love because of something that she lost that is hurting her so badly
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Postby mlg » Sat Mar 14, 2009 11:00 pm

Good to hear you will think about it. Just gotta remember if you fall down...you gotta get up and keep on keeping on.

Praying for you.

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Postby Angelbaby5460 » Mon Aug 31, 2009 12:39 am

What happens when you realize that your lifes not worth living anymore and all you want to do is say goodbye and just end it all...
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Postby Mackenaw » Mon Aug 31, 2009 1:34 am

Angelbaby5460 wrote:What happens when you realize that your lifes not worth living anymore and all you want to do is say goodbye and just end it all...


Hello Angelbaby,

The first step is to admit that you are feeling that way, then tell someone that loves The Lord and who will pray for you and tell you the truth.

Angelbaby, you took the first step. Praise God.

I'm praying for you. God's will be done.

Now I will tell you truth. God loves you. Life is difficult and satan does not play fair. God loves you. You need to acknowledge the One Who can help you, and that One is God. God gave you life and He is trusting that you will choose Him above all else, and fight the good fight of faith. Seek Him with everything you have. Eternity with Him in heaven, is worth fighting for. Go to Him and pray for strength and love and peace. Jesus Christ is the door, so knock. Call out to Him.

God be with you, Angelbaby.
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Postby Angelbaby5460 » Mon Aug 31, 2009 6:44 am

How or why could he or would he love someone like me... I am not needed he dont need someone that such a mess like me... Im not worth it im not worth anything...
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Postby Dora » Mon Aug 31, 2009 7:33 am

Not one of us are worthy.
That is why we need Jeus.
He washes away our sins and makes us worthy in the site of God.

Romans 3:23
For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;

We are ALL sinners.

Isaiah 53:6
All we like sheep have gone astray; we have turned every one to his own way; and the LORD hath laid on him the iniquity of us all.

Jesus CAN take your sins and make you pure in the site of God.

saiah 64:6
But we are all as an unclean thing, and all our righteousnesses are as filthy rags; and we all do fade as a leaf; and our iniquities, like the wind, have taken us away.

Even the good things we do are unrighteous compaired to Gods goodness.

There is just no way around the fact that we need Jesus.
HE is the worthy one.

Revelation 5:12
Saying with a loud voice, Worthy is the Lamb that was slain to receive power, and riches, and wisdom, and strength, and honour, and glory, and blessing.
*Cross*

Don't be fooled Angelbaby. We have an enemy that is on the prowl, trying to get you to believe these lies he is whispering to you. One of his best tools is to keep you so low you won't grasp the love and forgiveness Jesus has for you.

1Pe 5:8 Be self-controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour.

God loves you and so do I!
*angel7* Sorrow looks back, Worry looks around, But faith looks up! Live simply, love generously, care deeply, speak kindly and trust in our Creator who loves us.
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Postby mlg » Mon Aug 31, 2009 7:53 am

Angelbaby hello sis *hug*

None of us are worthy of God's forgiving grace, but ya know it's really not for us to ask why He loves us but more to say how He loves us. God doesn't need a reason to love as we often think He should. God loves because He can and He wants too. God made you for His glory and He wants you to accept His love and not push Him away anymore. But ultimately the choice is yours.

Praying for you sis.

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Postby Mackenaw » Mon Aug 31, 2009 4:49 pm

Hello Angelbaby,

Remember when your sister was just a baby, and you did everything you could to protect her -- God was using you right then and there. His love flowed through you and you protected her and loved her and fed her and nurtured her the best you could.

Even though you were still a child yourself, you felt the need of another, and you discerned (felt) the looming threat to her, and you stepped up and comforted her. You did this, in spite of what you might happen to you. My dear, that is God's love in you -- that is Him in you.

This life is disappointing at times, there is a lot to deal with. But when we push past our own disappointments and grief and sorrow and reach out to Him, He will receive us and build us up again, so we can once again love, protect, feed and nurture another.

God is not finished with you yet. There are many others that need help and comfort, and you have work to do. He is asking you to reach out to lots of "little sisters" in this world. Be the love of Christ that is in you.

As Pine and Mlg stated above, non of us is perfect -- none of us is worthy on our own. But God loves us anyway, and God told Jesus the names of the people who love Him, and Jesus claims you as His own. Accept it, accept the love that He has for you and then share it with another hurting soul. When you do, the love continues to grow inside of you -- He will keep filling you up with His love and peace, and YES, even His joy.

You are in my prayers, Angelbaby.

God bless you.
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Postby Angelbaby5460 » Fri Sep 11, 2009 12:24 pm

How come no matter how much I try to stay away from him he always gets to me... Every time hes drunks he always finds me and always takes everything out on me... I am so sick of it all yet I have no way to get away from it... I am trying my best to figure out a way so that I can move into an apartment and get away from him completely but so far no luck and I am beginning to give up... Is it too much to want to be safe and away from him... He makes me feel so horrible and so worthless... I think if I were to get out on my own I may be able to make it this time...
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