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Postby Guest » Tue Jan 19, 2010 1:19 pm

I don't know what to do or really what to say on here. I feel empty & broken. I don't know where to start.
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Postby Christianity Oasis » Tue Jan 19, 2010 2:05 pm

The best place to start is by understanding TRUTH.

Someone I cared about deeply chose to take her life cuz of probs she was having. I researched the matter in depth and created a study on suicide that I would like to share.

So, you can believe that what you are about to read comes from my heart, not just facts and figures.

Most people won't admit it, but there is at one time or another in most everyone's life when the thought of suicide crosses their mind ...

People usually contemplate suicide when something in their life has gotten out of hand. They believe it to be so bad that they feel desperate enough to consider taking the only action that they believe will solve the problem ...

BUT WILL IT?

They believe that they are going to END their problems, but they are actually opening a whole new can of WORMS.

They are assuming that all their problems will all just fade away and they will find peace.

HOWEVER, that is just an assumption ... And a wrong one.

They are taking a chance on the unknown and what could prove to be FAR worse problems than the situation they are in right now.

New and bigger problems which will affect their everlasting future .................

Wanna learn more about this?

http://www.christianityoasis.com/keyword/suicide.htm



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Postby xxJILLxx » Tue Jan 19, 2010 2:27 pm

Father lifting up this precious soul to you dear Lord, replace brokeness with feeling of being whole in You dear God, Father I pray for a release of your encouragement and compassion to begin to envelope around her in the Mighty Name of Jesus.

Keeping you in my prayers

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Postby mlg » Tue Jan 19, 2010 2:27 pm

iwant2die, There is something greater out there than this feeling of hurt...it's called Hope...my prayers are with you and we do care.

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Postby momof3 » Tue Jan 19, 2010 3:16 pm

there is hope..there is more than what you see. Am praying for you, iwant. You arent here by accident. Let Jesus show you.

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Postby Guest » Tue Jan 19, 2010 4:06 pm

how do you express the deep pain, hurt, frustration, bitterness from deep within my heart. I understand that some things posted on here get cut out about dying.
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Postby mlg » Tue Jan 19, 2010 4:31 pm

How do you express those things sis? Well the answers you must seek in the Light.

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Postby xxJILLxx » Tue Jan 19, 2010 9:23 pm

Hi sis


Some things that helped my daughter overcome depression, self harm and suicidal thoughts is replacing ungodly beliefs.

UNgodly beliefs are beliefs contrary to the Word of God about yourself, others, life and God; they are lies , not the truth. These wrong beliefs rob you of your purpose and take away your hope. Its impossible to walk in freedom if you are holding on to ungodly beliefs.

U may be asking, "How do I break free from these ungodly beliefs in my mind?" Confess your sin of holding on to ungodly beliefs and replace them with th triths from the Word of God, which we refer to as godly beliefs. For example:

Ungodly belief: I feel emptyu and incomplet. Hurting myself is who I am and what I do. Without it I am nothing.

Godly belief: God will open the door to my heart and fill me with love. My identity and my value are found in Him.

related scripture: "may you experience the love of Christ, though it is too great to understand fully, Then you will be made complete with all the fullness of life and power that comes from God." (Eph 3:19 NLT)

Ungoldy belief: I need to self injure in order to feel release from my pain.

Godly belief: God is my source of healing and strength. I choose to rely on Him to help me through anything i encounter. As I give Him my pain, He will give em the release I need through HIs peace and heqaling. I can trust Him to be faithful.

Related Scripture: "You will guard him and keep him in perfect and constant peace whose mind (both its inclination and its character) is stayed on You, because he commits himself to You, leans on You, and hopes confidently in You (Isaiah 26:3 AMP)

It will help you begin a written list of your own ungodly beliefs and scriptures that you can use to replace them. Read your personla godly beliefs out loud every day at least for a month in the beginning of your walk in freedom.

If you need help with this you can pm me and i can work on it with you.

You re in my prayers
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Postby deetu » Tue Jan 19, 2010 9:59 pm

hi want2. I wish that I had you in front of me so I could hug you but this will have to do *Hug9*

I know it is hard for you to believe that we could care for you, but we do because the love of God is in us and we are so happy that He is there that we can't help but want other people to be free to know that.

Start writing whatever you want. We won't judge.


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