Christianity Oasis Forum

[Lyon]

I am new here. Finally I decided to confess my addiction please pray that I will be set free. I am a saved christian but of late I find am addicted to having cyber sex chats & porn. Always addicted to go one particular Cyber chat site where many Girls come in looking for cyber sex chats and I get involved with them. I am really sorry to mention that am addicted to this sin of cyber sex chatting and lust in my mind. I know when I confess my sin and tell the truth Jesus will set me free. Kindly advice me how I can get myself out of this sin. I've been praying for this alone but still struggling and BUSY (Being Under Satans Yoke) with this sin. Please pray & need advice.


Lyon Lost

[Lani]

Howdy Bro,
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Amen! It is good to allow others to fight this battle with you!! Thank you for stepping out of what you have known as a solo battle, allowing us the opportunity to stand with ya.

how I can get myself out

Alone? You can't... Sorry to say brother but plain, honest truth.


Ecclesiastes 4:9-12

King James Version (KJV)
9Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour.
10For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up.
11Again, if two lie together, then they have heat: but how can one be warm alone?
12And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken.


But.... What you can do, is continue to allow us to stand with ya in the awesome presence of our Lord where together, we can fight!

Another suggestion, if I may be so bold Give God 14 days, one step at a time, through the following Journey of Healing and Truth:
http://www.christianityoasis.com/CCCC/Forum.htm

Every time you feel tempted to give in to the sin you wish to seperate yourself from, choose instead to read a step (whatever step you are on) or one of the previous steps you have read through (once started). Read it as many times as ya need to, instead of going where your heart says Don't. I also encourage you to write in your journal (this will be explained in step one) each time you read through... this will allow you (and those within this ministry who will stand with ya) to witness His awesome work in and through you!

I would also like to welcome and encourage you to consider joining any of the awesome Spirit-Filled Programs offered in Chat here at the Oasis...
http://www.christianityoasis.com/Keyword/calendar.htm

SOS Chat Program is offered Wednesday at 8 PM where we join together to discuss ways to overcome addiction.

Prayers are with you Lyon Bro, for freedom, strength and healing in accordance to Gods Holy Will.

Peace n Luv in Christ,
Lani

[Wonderfilled One]

Hey Bro,

Welcome. You have taken the first big step. Thank God for leading you here.
Just admiting your problem has taken some of its power away, and that's an AWESOME start!!!! I would welcome you to join all of us fellow/fella strugglers on Weds. at 8:00pm in S.O.S Chat. We have all been there, done that. We do not judge anyone, and please feel free to share and ask questions. I'm sure that between us, we can answer any questions.
Again I welcome ya Bro. Feel free to PM any of us if you have any questions.

GBU,
Wonder

[Lyon]

Thankz Sister Lani and Wonder Bro for your kind response & advice. Yes I will take up the 14 day Healing & Truth program and also will try and join the S.O.S chat on Wed 8pm.

I feel that already I am on my path to freedom after I opened myself out here by confessing my addiction I have never been to that particular chat site.

Lyon

[Lani]

to choice to begin 14 step Path
for Freedom

God is so very Awesome!

I do hope to see you sharing again soon bro, one step at a time... No Worries

Prayers remain!

Peace n Luv in Christ,
Lani

[Lyon]

Dear Brothers and Sisters,

Praise the Lord. After much struggle today I am starting the CCCC forum 14 step healing program. It took me one month and four days to make the start from the 1st date I came here and placed my problem. Few times over this period I fell of but managed to dust off and get back. I know this should not be the way as I need to free myself completly. The 14 steps I know will help me with that. Please advise me what else I should do .

Thanks
Lyon

[Wonderfilled One]

Hey Lyon,
That was an awesome decision you made, to go through the step program. Faith in the power of Christ, and the grace of the Father will bring much healing to your life. May God Bless You. Any questions, or way we can help, just give a shout.
Strength, and His Peace, to you,
Wonderfilled One

[Lyon]

Thanks Wonder Bro for your comments and Support .

All Glory to God,
Blessings .
Lyon

[Lani]

Lyon!

So very glad to see you again brother!

How is journey in healing going?

You remain in my prayers always

Hope to see ya again soon!

Peace n Luv in Christ,
Lani

[Lyon]

Thanks Sister Lani for your msg.

Healing steps journey is awesome. I am logging the Steps in "Lyons Journal - Stepping Stones" at the Cool Christian Counselling Journals Section. Please have a look and advise Sister.

Blessings,
Lyon