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Keeping Incest Secrets

Some may say ... This Incest secrets program is excellent for those who hated the incest secrets abuse and wanted the incest secrets to stop or if the incest secrets horrors already stopped.

But, what about those who are still involved in incest secrets with echoes like these incest secrets in their minds and hearts:

Ok ... Then let's be real with ourselves.

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What is the reason that we are allowing ourselves to believe? Perhaps one or more of these?

Oh, but wait ... There's more !!!

No matter what excuses we add in, or whether we want to admit it or not ... We secretly do hope somehow we can stop the habit that has been formed, despite what the whispers say in our mind.

It's happened so much that it actually feels like a habit now. Is addicted too strong a word? Nehhhhhhh, it describes it perfectly !!! It is no more than an addiction.

Some of us think it more horrible for it to stop happening than for it to continue. It's our sense of love. We think we like it ... Okay ... Then prove it ... If we really like it, then ...

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C'monnnnnnn ... Face it. We do not like it. It's a game the devil is playing in our minds. It's an addiction that we can't seem to break. You know ... A habit.

Everyone has habits they don't like. They can and do break these habits every day. Think there is no way huh?

Hey ... There is a way. But, it takes some determination and its going to sound a bit difficult ... But can be very easy to do.

God gives us Free Will though, remember? If we choose to continue to allow it to happen ... Knowing it's wrong ... Then how will we ever be able to walk in the path that God wanted us to be in?

That path is full of blessings, joy, peace, and freedom.

We are choosing to stay encaged ... Because of this habit.

We can stop this. It does not matter what we did. Who cares if we think we initiated it? Who cares if they initiated it? Who cares if we think we wanted to go along with it? Who cares if we numbed out to be able to please them? It doesn't change what happened, who and what the source of our addiction is.

It's All in the Past Now

We have the power to make it stop. Inside of us. We have to stop making excuses ... And allow ourselves to be set free.

Story Time

Let's try a scenario or two as to help us imagine what it would be like for someone else ... Sometimes its easier to understand and see Truth, if we aren't talking about our own selves.

We find out a young child we know well is being molested by a family member. We bring up the topic to the child because we want to help. The child tells us that they like it happening sometimes. Yeah ... Sometimes they might not ... But that's okay. They take the good with the bad.

Uhhhhhhh ... Would we be truly okay with our self if we just said "Oh okay ... As long as you like it ... Then you can keep doing it."?

Imagine the same situation with a friend our age ... Except now add in all the aftermath that is able to be seen after several times or even years of it happening. They struggle with relationships, they harm themselves ... Add in everything that WE are going through ... (not to mention the hidden tears and hurt that they can't share with anyone) ...

But ... Our friend still thinks they like it ... Is it okay with you that they continue in their abuse? C'monnnnn, do not quit on me now.

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Here is another scenario to consider ...

A child gets kidnapped for period of time. When the parents find the child, the child tells them of different situations of sexual abuse that happened. Growing up, the child continues to think about what happened ... And almost misses it. It was part of their life. And it's gone now.

Are they bad for thinking those thoughts? Of course not ... It became a habit for the child. Do the parents alienate or abandon the child because they have these habits? No wayyyyyyy. And ... Just as it became a habit for us.

Our Heavenly Father understands and will forgive and help us if we reach out for Him and ask that He help us break the habit.

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Breaking the Habit

How do we break a habit? Like any other habit. Find something to replace it with and let time kick in. If we were trying to quit smoking ... People recommend chewing gum to replace the old habit.

If we are trying to quit cutting ... People recommend holding ice on the skin to replace the feeling you get.

If we are trying to quit drinking ... Trying to quit overeating ... Trying to quit cussing ... We find someone to talk to ... We find something to busy our self with ... We find different phrases to say to replace the old ones ...

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And Lead Us Not Into Temptation

The enemy of our soul wants us to stay as far away from God's purpose for our lives as possible. So he is constantly sending us temptations to go back and stay in our abuse. That way, no feelings of freedom are possible. Just as he wants.

But ... We can pray to be delivered from temptation:

We might get overwhelmed with the temptation to go back. It gets stuck in our head and it's all we can think about.

But the Truth is that God does not allow us to be tempted above what we can handle ...

Even Jesus was subject to temptations, but He showed us how to use Truth to overcome the whispered temptations.

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Jesus used Truth to shed light on the temptation as to show it was but a lie despite the fact that the devil tried to use Scripture to spruce up his lie as to appear to be the way it was. When the enemy of our soul heard these words of Truth, he immediately changed the subject and tried yet again to lure Jesus into sin.

Note that the devil did try more than once to lure even Jesus into sin but Jesus again used Truth and the enemy of our soul knew his efforts were futile.

So, what did he do next? He left. He can't stand hearing Truth being said and believed. It makes his ears burn. So he runs.

We can (and need to) do the same thing that Jesus did. When we are overcome with the temptation to go back and allow the abuse to continue ... We need to speak Truth to the lies we tell ourselves.

The enemy may try more tricks but he will leave if he sees that he cannot deceive us. Even if but for a season we can be refreshed and be prepared for the devil's next attack to our soul.

However, when we talk ourselves into accepting the temptations that we are overcome with as being the way it is, we deny the power of Truth to ever be able to overcome it.

So, we must choose to seek the Truth to ever be able to overcome the temptation.

Remember what we were told:

Sooooooo, we need only seek that way (Truth) that has been placed out there for us to escape. It is there. The only reason we cannot find it is because we are so wrapped up in the temptation itself. But, now we know the Truth that there is a way to escape the temptation.

And Truth Will Set Us Free!

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Sooooo ... Back to these lies we tell ourselves:

Instead ... Replace it with Truth:

It's in Christ that we find out who we are and what we are living for. Long before we first heard of Christ, He had His eye on us, had designs on us for glorious living, part of the overall purpose he is working out in everything and everyone.

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It's in Christ that we, once we heard the truth and believed it, we found our self home free--signed, sealed, and delivered by the Holy Spirit. This promise from God is the first step to what's coming, a reminder that we'll get everything God has planned for us: an awesome, useful, effective, fulfilling life.

Sounds great, doesn't it?!

We are made with such uniqueness, that no one else could fulfill the reason that God created us. It's like... He had this plan set for us before we were even alive. Ever thought about that? Believing we are not a piece of garbage, but have a purpose for something? Makes us wonder what it is. Is there really a plan for us? Even after ...

Absolutely!

God knows the plans He has for us ... Plans not to harm us but of peace, plans to give us hope and a future.

But why would God spend so much time making this wonderful plan for us? Because He created us. God loves us knowing everything we do and have done. Even our thoughts are not hidden from Him and He still loves us just as much. We are the only one that can fulfill the purpose that God made us for.

• Our smile was designed specifically for us.
• Our laugh is unique.
• Our gifts and talents are God-given.
• Our personality is like no one else. Though we may have similarities with people, there is not one soul with the exact same personality.
• No one else has the exact same footprint shape in the sand.
• We are a pearl ... A treasure ... Hidden within.
• No one's shell looks exactly like ours.
• No one's shell has been in all the same places as ours.
• And no one has the same inner or outer beauty as the pearl that we are.
• No one has the same sparkle and shine as our heart is made to have.

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No one has the same experiences. No one can reach the people we can the exact same way. Some people can only be reached and helped by us ... Because no one can understand them, except us. We have the experiences to really understand them. To really know how they feel.

Can't we see how precious and special we are? We were made for a reason!!! And living in abuse is not that reason!

God spent so much time creating us. His love and plans for us far exceed any worth or reason or excuse to allow the abuse to continue. We don't need the abuse continue when we start to accept the love that God has for us.

Can we live out His plans of peace and hope for us if we continue to fall into the temptation of going back or the apathy of it continuing?

No.

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We must free our self. Free our body and our spirit. Take these chains off of us. Don't live another day where we're encaged by sexual abuse and molestation. Don't let it shape our life anymore. Don't let it affect our spirit anymore. Don't let it determine where our life is headed (which is the opposite direction of what God's plans of peace have in store for us).

Break the habit. Break the chains. Be determined to be set free and say:

No More !!!

We have the strength to do it.

Through Him !!!

Leave everything you have said and done before ... In the past.

Do you want to get better? Do you want to heal? Do you want to be able to have a normal relationship with someone? Do you want to have a life instead of just an existence of a numbed child passing time every day?

We have nothing but the future now ahead of us and we have a choice of which direction we want to go. Freedom/Peace/Joy ... Or follow the devil's plan ... And we know where that leads.

The answer ... Choose.

Choose to fight these temptations that the devil is luring you with. You can overcome this and be set free.

For those that know it wrong, simply don't care, and decide to allow the abuse to continue anyway.

It's your choice what happens. Its your choice if you are going to continue to allow it or not. But because God knows our heart ... And He knows when we know better but still chose to go ...

Picture with me for a second ...

We have driven for a little while on a long windy road. The road has come to a dead end. We have to choice to go right or left. We can't go both. We can drive straight ahead so we don't have to "chose," but we would just smash into that huge tree in front of us. It's not possible.

Right or left.

We have the choice. We can chose the path that heads to healing. The state of freedom. God's plan for our life.

Or we can chose to go in the opposite direction and allow it to continue.

But now ... The devil is now using you as a lure to keep another soul from God. You have become the temptation. You are actually keeping another person (our abuser) living in sin. We are keeping another person from knowing God. (Remember you can't be living in continual sin and be on the path God has planned for us at the same time.)

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You can actually help save someone ... Give someone a chance to be forgiven by God and the opportunity to go to Heaven ... If they are not given the chance (by you) to live in continual sin.

You have the power to say no more and that you will not be used by the devil any longer.

Why would you chose to live a life that you feel encaged every single day? Why would you chose to do something that you know makes you want to scream out in shame and hurt afterward? Why would you allow something so wrong to happen (and you know it being wrong) continue to bleed and stain every part of your life, and instead of trying to clean it (when you have the things to remove the stain) you cry yourself to sleep wishing it would disappear on its own?

Its not going to disappear on its own.

As a warning ... Approximately one out of every 3 abuse victims becomes a predator against children. Decide to choose to walk away from the abuse before it's too late and you become a predator yourself.

Knowing what is wrong and purposely continuing has you living in sin.

Sin separates you from God and His promise of eternal life (life in Heaven rather than hell) ... Until you chose to repent and turn to Jesus. You can't have both ways.

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Keeping Incest Secrets Conclusion

A few warnings against God to those who still continue to sin and you know that it's wrong:

If we learn the truth and continue to ignore it and go off sinning anyway, no sacrifice can cover our sins. There will be nothing to look forward to but the terrible expectation of God's judgment and the raging fire that will consume his enemies.

If you have already escaped the filth and sin of the world by knowing the Lord and Jesus Christ, and chose to return back to the sin, you are worse off now than ever before. It is better if you had not started on the path toward God and then reject it because now you are rejecting a holy commandment because you knew right from wrong and still chose against God. What you decided to do is written in the proverbs: A dog returns to his own vomit, and a washed pig returns to the mud.

Ewwwwww !!!

Enough is Enough

No More !!!

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