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Entering the State of Purification

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What a beautiful day, isn't it? Today is kind of like the first day of a new school year or the first day at a new job or the first day of moving into a new house. We have the opportunity to start off brand new. We feel anxious and eager at the same time. We are leaving our past behind us.

Lamentations 3:22-24

²² It is of the Lord's mercies that we are not consumed, because his compassions fail not.
²³ They are new every morning: great is thy faithfulness.
²⁴ The Lord is my portion, saith my soul; therefore will I hope in him.

Do you hear the song coming on the radio? It is reminding us we have a new start every-single-day!! Today is the first day of the rest of our lives! Now is the first moment of the rest of our lives!

Let's turn it up!

Pure
by Superchik

This is my brand new day starting now
I let go the things that weigh me down
And rob me of the beauty that's to be found
In life all around
This is my prayer without ceasing the negative releasing
And I rise above my burden is easing

Chorus:

I bring the pure flow, like water around
The rocks of life won't pull me down
I bring the pure flow, drink so deep
The river of life, my soul at ease
I bring the pure flow, like water around
The rocks of life won't pull me down
I bring the pure flow, rising above the storms of life
To live and love
This is my brand new day in the light
Troubles rising up on the left and the right
I keep my eyes fixed on where I want to go
The rest will follow
And this is my prayer without ceasing the negative releasing
And as I rise above my burden is easing

Chorus

This is my brand new day starting now
Letting go of the ways that I fall down
The old can be made new, the lost can be found, the lost will be found
This is my prayer without ceasing the negative releasing
And as I rise above my burden is easing
Chorus
My soul is at ease and I am free
My soul is at ease and I am free
This is my day
My soul is at ease and I am free
And I am free

Oh yeah. My soul is at ease. No more holding onto the past. We are looking forward. We have one goal ... The State of freedom. We are getting close! Can you feel it?

Philippians 3:13-14

¹³ Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended: but this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before,
¹⁴ I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus.

Every day is a new day ... A fresh start. Every moment is a new moment. No matter what, you aren't a hopeless cause. Read the New Testament. Get to know the character of Jesus' Apostles at the beginning of their walk with Christ. They weren't a group of virtue filled fellas right from the get go. It took time. It took faith.

Let's start off this new day in a new realm. This physical realm we have been living in is no fun. Let's try something new.

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Let's make sure we stay in the realm with God and Love and not in the enemy of our soul's world.

New Beginnings

New day. New state. New realm. New verses. New songs. New life. New habits. New outlook. Everything is new!

Ephesians 4:22-24

²² That ye put off concerning the former conversation the old man, which is corrupt according to the deceitful lusts;
²³ And be renewed in the spirit of your mind;
²⁴ And that ye put on the new man, which after God is created in righteousness and true holiness.

We are leaving the past in the past.

2 Corinthians 5:17

Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new.

We now have a new door with a new lock to our heart and soul. Do we really want our life to change for the better? Do we really want to let go of the things from our past? Well ... Let's think for a few minutes about things ... Our soul has "garments" around it. Garments consisting of our surroundings, our response to things, our thoughts and our actions, our way of thinking ...

We need to change our old garments.

Luke 5:36

And He spake also a parable unto them; No man putteth a piece of a new garment upon an old; if otherwise, then both the new maketh a rent, and the piece that was taken out of the new agreeth not with the old.

It's time to experience that joy that we have been longing for all our lives. It's time to experience that hope we try to hold onto, but seems so far out of reach. Why?

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Why does it always seem so out of reach? Because of the walls we allow to stay there. Walls of addictions, old ways, keeping in contact with people we know harm us, allowing old triggers to negatively affect our thoughts ...

When our clothes get dirty after wearing them, what do we do with them? Keep wearing them? Each day the smell grows stronger and stronger ... But we keep wearing them? No. We take them off, and wash them.

It's time to change the garments around our soul. Our past is in the past. It's done. No more. Enough is enough. We are starting over now. If we want the hope, if we want the joy, we take control of our thoughts. You can not entertain the flashbacks or the triggers any longer. Do I sound like a broken record? Good! Repetition makes things familiar and helps turn old habits into new lifestyles.

We are focusing on the future. We are not looking behind us. We can't look ahead and behind us at the same time. We can't keep walking forward and harbor old thoughts and memories at the same time. It's impossible. But, we already know that, because we've been trying to have both for some time now.

We are being born again! Just like a butterfly once was a caterpillar. It was reborn into a gorgeous creature that flies. We are no longer a caterpillar crawling in the dirt. We are becoming that butterfly. We will never have to crawl in dirt again.

Let's check out this article which explains a little more about being "reborn:"

You hear the song that is playing on the radio? It's a good one. You wanna turn it up?

Break These Chains
by Deborah Allen

Break these chains around my heart.
Cut me loose and set me free.
I can't stand to live my life,
Bound to your memory.

The 'phone rings, it's three in the morning,
Who else could it be?
You're gone, but you try to keep it going.
That's the last thing I need.
Forever is over,
Now it's up to me.

To break these chains,
If I'm ever gonna love again.
(Break these chains.)
I'm gonna say goodbye and let it end.
(These chains.)
My heart is tellin' me,
If I'm gonna be free:
I gotta break these chains.

It's time to put away your picture,
Take your pillow from my bed.
I'm still bound to you, baby,
But with every step,
I'm gettin' stronger,
And I won't bend.

I gotta break these chains,
If I'm ever gonna love again.
(Break these chains.)
I gotta say goodbye and let it end.
(These chains.)
My heart is tellin' me,
If I'm gonna be free:
I gotta break these chains.

Change, everybody changes;
Gonna have to be the one to break these chains.
Change, everybody changes;
Gonna have to walk away and break these chains.
Forever is over,
Now it's up to me.
Breaking the chains! Yahoo!!

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Since we are breaking free of our past and have become pure within ourselves, let's create a place that is pure, untouched, and clean that we can go to and talk to God. Let's build a shrine.

Clean. Untouched. Pure.

It is our place for only us and God. No one is allowed in it. The only things that are allowed in is things that inspire and give us the hope that we need. Maybe some pictures of Jesus, angels, lyrics of songs that give us Hope and remind us of the Freedom that we are heading toward, quotes or Bible verses that encourage us.

Nothing is allowed in our shrine without our permission. It may be an entire room in our house (if we are the only one that enters it). It may be a corner in our house. Maybe even a closet we are able to move the clothes out of so we can have a place for us and God to talk and focus.

Matthew 6:6

But thou, when thou prayest, enter into thy closet, and when thou hast shut thy door, pray to thy Father which is in secret; and thy Father which seeth in secret shall reward thee openly.

We are not to bring any old garments in. All old thoughts and fears are not welcome anymore.

You know how we have a "bedtime routine" where we start to settle down so we can get tired before we go to bed? We have trained ourselves that when we start doing those things and get into bed, our body knows it's time to go to sleep. So naturally our body will get tired and fall asleep.

Our shrine is going to work the same way. We are going to train our mind that whenever we step foot in our shine, that it is only God and us time. Only encouraging things will surround us. Only positive thoughts are allowed during the time we are sitting in our shrine. This is God's place. It's pure.

Our soul is going to love it and look forward to it every day. We have to make sure we set aside time everyday to visit it. It will help us stay focused on our goal.

Ezekiel 36:25-27

²⁵ Then will I sprinkle clean water upon you, and ye shall be clean: from all your filthiness, and from all your idols, will I cleanse you.
²⁶ A new heart also will I give you, and a new spirit will I put within you: and I will take away the stony heart out of your flesh, and I will give you an heart of flesh.
²⁷ And I will put my spirit within you, and cause you to walk in my statutes, and ye shall keep my judgments, and do them.

We can do this. Even though it might seem hard at times or even impossible to actually live a life without the fear of abuse and/or memories of abuse ... We can be set free. We just have to choose to try.

We have to choose to give our lives with our past, present, and future up to God for Him to steer us in the right direction. All we can do and need to do, is hold onto Him and follow. Let Him make us free from our past. He knows how.

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Let's put in that CD right there and check out the first song on it.

All That I Can Do
by Bethany Dillon

I ran around the room again
I ran outside and ran back in
And I just couldn't get away from myself
I don't care what tomorrow brings
I won't back down for anything
I want to think that I was made for something else

[Bridge:]

I can't wait anymore
I'm ready to reach
So I'm closing the door behind me

[Chorus:]

All that I can do is hold onto you
And follow where you lead
Where you're leading me
All that I can do is hold onto you
And let you bring me through
It's all that I can do
There are days I think I don't need you
There are days when I can't see the truth
I need you to save me from the lies
Because every thought that's in my head
And even when I draw my next breath
You knew it all before there was time
When the waves begin to rise
And all my hope fails
In confidence I'll close my eyes
Trusting you'll be there

[Chorus]

The moment that we decide that things are going to change, is when it can start to change. They aren't going to magically change on their own without our faith. We feel that tug and that desperate desire to be let go of our yesterdays, yet we still hang on to them. We have to take that next step. We have to get rid of the destruction in our life. We are done with feeling ashamed, broken, empty, and hopeless. We have to say ...

No more!

Let's put our foot on the gas and go. We are leaving this all behind us.

Fly
by Hilary Duff

In a moment, everything can change,
Feel the wind on your shoulders,
For a minute, all the world can wait,
Let go of your yesterday.

Can you hear it calling?
Can you feel it in your soul?
Can you trust this longing?
And take control,

Fly
Open up the part of you that wants to hide away
You can shine,
Forget about the reasons why you can't in life,
And start to try, cause it's your time,
Time to fly.

All your worries, leave them somewhere else,
Find a dream you can follow,
Reach for something, when there's nothing left,
And the world's feeling hollow.

Can you hear it calling?
Can you feel it in your soul?
Can you trust this longing?
And take control,

Fly
Open up the part of you that wants to hide away
You can shine,
Forget about the reasons why you can't in life,
And start to try, cause it's your time,
Time to fly.

And when you're down and feel alone,
Just want to run away,
Trust yourself and don't give up,
You know you better than anyone else,

In a moment, everything can change,
Feel the wind on your shoulder,
For a minute, all the world can wait,
Let go of yesterday,

Fly
Open up the part of you that wants to hide away
You can shine,
Forget about the reasons why you can't in life,
And start to try,
Fly
Forget about the reasons why you can't in life,
And start to try, cause it's your time,
Time to fly.
In a moment, everything can change.

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Let's journal now. Come up with things that we are going to put in our charts so we can start working on them. This is going to be our next step to all our new beginnings. This is our next trip to Freedom. Can you feel it getting closer? We have been together forever and what touches me touches you.

Do you know who I am yet?

I'll leave these two songs for you to read and take in as your journaling. What a great day. Let's meet up tomorrow at that little diner on that corner. Tomorrow we have another field trip! Another pit stop. See you soon!

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