what exactly is baptism?

I've been following christ for a few years now but I've never been baptized, partly because I've heard so much about what a baptism isnt that I dont really know what baptism is, can someone explain the ins and outs of baptism to me?
I mean I know its a symbol of your faith, and its the next step in following Jesus, but is it considered being disobedient if you dont get baptized?
is it considered a christians second birth? if so are you not a true christian before baptism?
does it effect a persons salvation if they dont get baptized?
what does the bible say about baptism?

I mean I know its a symbol of your faith, and its the next step in following Jesus, but is it considered being disobedient if you dont get baptized?
is it considered a christians second birth? if so are you not a true christian before baptism?
does it effect a persons salvation if they dont get baptized?
what does the bible say about baptism?
