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My spouse of 22 years died 4 hours ago. She had a mild heart atack on Sunday afternoon.. I thought she was going to be okay today. Had a angiogram scheduled for 5:00 p.m. I am in shock... I hurt.. I feel lost in this house with her not here.. I don't know what to do. I'm here alone now. I see here chair.. and know she will not sit in it any longer beside me. I see her things and I know she will not touch them again. This is not a home without her. I've here in this home asking her why she left me here. I spent time in the hospital room with her after she passed and had to leave her for the last time. Why could we not have gone together. We talked about everything she was my confidant! I don't know what to do with myself. I feel my world has now collapsed! What do I do. Someone talk to me. No one was in the chat this morning. My life with to many tragedies this one hurts the most.

Dean

I am so sorry for your loss.

Do you have a church? You need to call them. Let them know.

I am so sorry for your loss
I cannot imagine the heartache you feel right now, but please know we all here will walk with you through this
and want to pray with and for you, Please try to remember the good and all the love you shared not that she is no longer here but she is there in heaven.

I just want to say it is good you found this with her as I have never experienced such love, and 22 years of such...wow
you were blessed, Please try to go to God and ask for healing of your broken heart and guidence of what He wishes for you to do now, I pray I one day find my angel as it seems you were lucky enough to be blessed with for 22 years.

There are no words we can say that will help but please know we are here for you, I am sorry I cannot go into chat as I am at work and need to get busy but please feel free to message me and I will surely return any such on my breaks.
But if you hang on there will be others that I am sure will meet you in chat, please do not feel alone

I ask that God pours His love around you as well as wraps you in His loving arms and comforts you in this time of need
May God bless you brother
Cuc

Thank you very much for your kind words. I am hurting very much right now. Your words are a comfort.

Dean

Oh Dean, I am so sorry for your loss.*hugs*

I have no words to espress to make you feel better. I hope you do know that you have friends here who do care, please continue to share about your wife, it helps you through the grieving process.

Here are some words of comfort from out Father's Word that i thought might help a lil.

A father to the fatherless, a defender of widows, is God in his Holy dwelling.
(Psalm 68:5)

"The Lord has become my fortress, and my God the rock in whom I take refuge."
(Psalm 94.22)

Psalm 34:18
The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit

Isaiah 40:18-31
Do you not know? Have you not heard? The Lord is the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth. He will not grow tired or weary, and his understanding no one can fathom. He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak. Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall; but those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.

God bless you brother and keep you tight in Him during this time of grief and sorrow.

♥Jill

xxJILLxx thank you for your kind words and sharing the strenghtening words of our father.

Dont mention it, my pleassure to offer them.

You are In my thoughts and prayers.

♥Jill