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Hello I am new to this site, but I really need help dealing with some issues with my marriage. Yesterday I found that my husband had been looking at a picture of a naked woman in the washroom. He tore it up and put it in the trash. We have talked about this a few times before and I told him I did not like it and if he wanted to continue he could leave. Well those times it was cell phone or computer.
Today I talk to him about it and he told me he does this when I get upset with him and he does not feel like being with me sexually.
So I feel like I'm being punished for getting upset, I'm not allowed to feel upset or I will be punished, what kind of relationship is this?

Prayers going out for you. Satan will do his best to destroy a marriage, for marriage is love. It is Love that will destroy the devil, and he knows his time is near. He is the roaring lion, ready to devour, and unfortunately in marriages when a gap is opened, he will enter. Your husband is being used as his tool, revenge (as he takes out his anger(also a fruit of the devil) on you.) and adultery, yes adultery . Mathew 5:28 But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart. If your husband is a Christian, this verse must be brought to his attention, for what he is doing is not only wrong and disrespectful to you, but also to our almighty God.
He must not only ask for forgiveness from you, but ask for forgiveness to our saviour Jesus. Sorrry i speak so boldly, but marriage is sacred, and God wants to bless the marriage, but while the devil sleeps inbetween you both it may have serious consequences.
Praying for restoration, and love in your marriage.

Prayer can change things.