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I forgave people until they hurt me again . They i would bring up the other times they hurt me . My ex husband and sister had an affair for 2 years years . I had found on on Valentine's day when I was pregnant with our second child . I said I forgave them . But I never let go of the hurt and Pain .
I could honestly saw the last night I saw my sister I didn't have any hurt or bad feelings toward her . Well right now I am not happy with her at all . She's chasing after my ex husband . I'm more worried about our daughters how confused the will be when they see their dad and aunt living together . my biggest thing is to forgive myself . and stop believing the lies . I need to start seeing myself the way Jesus sees me . I need to fully forgive and let the Lord deal with the people if they don't repent or ask for forgiveness . Looking forward to otday's step . I am off to do today's step .

Yes, Reba you are still struggling with letting go. Once you do this all of the things going on with your sister and your ex will seem less dire to you, as you will see it with loving eyes. Prayer for your sister is what is best. Keep doing the steps sis, and I'm praying for you to be able to forgive those involved.

luv ya