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Today I learned about God's grace , And forgiven and forgotten . I've learned that I need to forgive me self to let go of the the pain and the blame I put on myself . It's not going to help me in the future . it's only going to be a hindrance . when I forgave thoses who hurt me in the past , I never let go over the pain . I held onto it so if they hurt me again . I'd remind them of the last time they hurt me . I need to let go of the pain and move on . Let go and let God remove it

God Bless

Reba, you are right you have to find a way to forgive yourself to remove the pain. Everytime you revisit the notion that you should have done something you are only revisiting the pain, which then in turn causes more pain. I'm praying for you to let it go so that you can have relief from your past.

luv ya sis