Zemi!
Take the chart in small steps and build on them if you must.
If you rarely read the bible writing down that you'll read one chapter of the old testament and one from the new testament will be difficult and probably will be setting yourself up to fail. But to read ONE verse from the Psalms, ONE from Proverbs and one from the new Testament each day would be more attainable and can be accomplished through out the day and you may find yourself instead of reading one verse, reading two, three, four, or a chapter. The point is to establish a habit of reading Gods word daily. You can't begin a marathon with out practice.
I don't know what your reading practice is, I just encourage you to not set a goal that is so high that you will get discouraged and quit. Sometimes just reading the verse of the day on a calendar is the first step.
While some may wish to sit and write a psalm each day as one of their steps, that would be very huge for others. Myself included. :D BUT to turn on a worship cd or Christian radio station each day would be attainable! And counts!
Consider what are your gifts and talents? I wasn't sure of mine. So I began to dig into my childhood to find what it was I use to dream about before the world stole away my passion and dreams. Some seem silly, but still to this day it's one of my most favorite things to do. Such as my favorite place as a child was in a field of daisies. To this day one of my favorite things is to pick bouquets of wild flowers in the fields. I feel closest to God when I do this. Probably sounds very silly to others who don't experience this, but to me it must be where God wants me. And so it brings great joy, peace, and pleasure. I also loved to use artistic abilities to create. Still to this day that is a passion of mine. I encourage you to spend some time seeking what that inner child loved to do, what brought her the most joy and begin to experience those things again. Did she love reading but you find you have no time to read? Write that on your chart to read 30 minutes a day of a book that brings you joy and peace. Did she love fishing, but you never go anymore. Make that a goal, to make progress on a daily basis to get out fishing. Not fish on a daily basis but to take steps to make this happen.
One of my favorites on my chart was to pray in the spirit. Some think this means to speak in tongues. I don't think so. I think it means to allow your spirit to commune with Gods spirit. A deep deep deep one on one time where troubles and problems just disappear and it's just you and Him hanging out. I often find I forget everything and don't even notice what is going on around me during this time. I often forget to take the time to seek him this deeply and so adding it to my chart was a daily reminder to take time for this one on one very personal moment with our Father.
Zemi I hate flossing my teeth! It hurts! They bleed and hurt for a long time after. But good dental care is important. Just ask my dentist! He'll tell you! He tells me every time I see him.
So I put as one of mine to floss my teeth at least a few times a week. I didn't put daily cause I knew I'd fail and then just give up on the entire chart. My dentist says daily, but I knew it was not going to happen for me at that time cause I hate flossing. That was a few years ago. I'm flossing almost daily now and my dentist is proud of me!
I hate having my bed a mess. I feel like a slob. I feel like I failed before I even had my coffee. It might be a weird thing about me, but it's the way I am. Sooooooooo fixing my bed daily went on my chart. And you know what, I love myself a little when I can get ready for the day in a bedroom where my bed is properly fixed. Now goodness for someone who doesn't care one stitch if their bed is fixed this would not be a good thing for their chart, but to me, it was important and made a difference in how I feel and honestly makes a huge difference in my attitude that day.
This is not a chore chart. This is not something to dread. If it feels that way then something with in it isn't right. God says his burden is light and His yoke is easy. You may need to fine tune things as you go along. You may find something just is to huge a burden. Then lighten it. This chart is a way to see to it that your goals get accomplished. You know those things God wants for our lives but never get done because we just float through life with out putting any effort today into them. Those things perhaps we never realized were Gods will for our lives.
I would love to help you set up your chart and even help you along the path. There is no fail. I am one to have to have 103% or I failed. I don't keep a score. Cause I will see I missed the mark and get mad and discouraged and quit. Even thinking of failing makes me freak. I've hidden my chart from others because what if they see I failed. Perhaps there's a better way. It seems applying His grace and remembering He is strong in our weakness would be the better way.
When we miss the mark instead of freaking cause we failed we can thank Him for His grace.