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Hopeful, fearful, doubtful.... a myriad of emotions is what i am experiencing now. i really hope that this 14 day session will help me.... why do i need hep? here goes....
Relationships, yes thats it... i have never been very successful with relationships, no not even friendships. i have few friends and i am amazed that they stick with me . I am very stubborn and i like having things my way and if they dont go my way i might stop being your friend and do it my way anyway. so you can see how that might be problematic but the real problem is when it comes to romantic relationships.... I demand a lot and i dont give my all in return... i dont think i have ever given my all in a relationship... i dont know how. is it possible?
i have been in a relationship with a pretty awesome Christian young man for the past two years and only God knows how or why he tolerates me... and now I feel like i want to leave and to be honest, i am not sure why. I know he loves me and cares about me but somehow i think something is missing, i still want more of him, i think we have lost the sparkle. we have had discussions (more like arguments) about it (getting back the "sparkle) on many occasions but i dont think anything has changed and now i want to leave.... Heavenly Father i need your guidance and direction, Please help me. Friends please pray for me.
Relationships, yes thats it... i have never been very successful with relationships, no not even friendships. i have few friends and i am amazed that they stick with me . I am very stubborn and i like having things my way and if they dont go my way i might stop being your friend and do it my way anyway. so you can see how that might be problematic but the real problem is when it comes to romantic relationships.... I demand a lot and i dont give my all in return... i dont think i have ever given my all in a relationship... i dont know how. is it possible?
i have been in a relationship with a pretty awesome Christian young man for the past two years and only God knows how or why he tolerates me... and now I feel like i want to leave and to be honest, i am not sure why. I know he loves me and cares about me but somehow i think something is missing, i still want more of him, i think we have lost the sparkle. we have had discussions (more like arguments) about it (getting back the "sparkle) on many occasions but i dont think anything has changed and now i want to leave.... Heavenly Father i need your guidance and direction, Please help me. Friends please pray for me.
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Me26
Hello Me26
God bless you this day.
It was nice to meet you in Chat and talk. I'm so glad you are doing the CCCC / 14-Day Path Study. Woooooohooooo!!!
I'm sending up prayers to our Lord on your behalf. May God's blessed will be done.
Me26, I'll be seeing you around Chat and here in Forums.
God bless and keep you.
In Christ Jesus' love,
Sister Mack
God bless you this day.
It was nice to meet you in Chat and talk. I'm so glad you are doing the CCCC / 14-Day Path Study. Woooooohooooo!!!
I'm sending up prayers to our Lord on your behalf. May God's blessed will be done.
Me26, I'll be seeing you around Chat and here in Forums.
God bless and keep you.
In Christ Jesus' love,
Sister Mack
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Mackenaw - Posts: 2414
- Location: NY
- Marital Status: Married
hi Me, nice to meet you
Don't make any decisions about boyfriend until you do the steps. Some things may come to light that will help you if you wait. Many times problems with our relationships is something from our past that needs to be addressed. The program is great to help with that.
I usually tell people about a fantastic book called... The Five Love Languages. It helped me to see something in my husband I didn't understand.
Look forward to seeeing you in chat
Don't make any decisions about boyfriend until you do the steps. Some things may come to light that will help you if you wait. Many times problems with our relationships is something from our past that needs to be addressed. The program is great to help with that.
I usually tell people about a fantastic book called... The Five Love Languages. It helped me to see something in my husband I didn't understand.
Look forward to seeeing you in chat
It is better to light a candle then curse the darkness
No fear... just freedom
No fear... just freedom
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deetu - Posts: 937
- Location: New Jersey
- Marital Status: Married
Hello me
I like to call my stubbornness determination. Put it to work for doing good.
I like to call my stubbornness determination. Put it to work for doing good.
Sorrow looks back, Worry looks around, But faith looks up! Live simply, love generously, care deeply, speak kindly and trust in our Creator who loves us.
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Dora - Posts: 3759
- Location: In Gods Hands
- Marital Status: Married
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