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thanks guys for all the support, really appreciate it.

well i went for my make over, it didnt really make me feel any better, i just wanted to go back to my house and stay in my room.

friday was a bad start for me, my mother had an accident with my vehicle, the vehicle is not driveable. Thats just even more pressure on me, that I cant manage at the moment.

I had to hire a vehicle to get to work etc, now to lodge a claim with my insurance is going to be a headache

things with my exboyfriend are getting critical, with threats, i dont undertstand he's suppose to be saved why is he acting like this?

i just keep looking to God to help me , guide me and protect me.

Its a tough road,but i Have Jesus by my side

Hello Carmey

God bless you this day.

I'm sorry to hear about your car, and the troubles you are having with your mother and with your ex-boyfriend. I'm lifting up prayers to our Lord Jesus on your behalf. May God's blessed will be done.

Carmey, I hope you'll consider doing the 14-Day Counseling Study, also referred to as the CCCC Study. Many of us, plus hundreds of others, have read it and it has really helped us grow in our understanding of ourselves -- as God sees us, as well as helped us grow in our understanding of God and how He helps us in our day to day lives.

I really encourage you to read it. Here is the link to the Study:
http://www.christianityoasis.com/CCCC/Forum.htm

Hold tight to The Lord, Carmey. The Lord Jesus loves you so very much.

God bless and keep you.
In Christ Jesus' love,
Sister Mack

Hello carmey,
I first want to say I too am sorry you are going through these trials as for the car it's replacable your mom's not so there is good in everything
As for the makeover I know it makes women feel pretty and most times it does make them pretty BUT as I learned at twenty something when I started to lose my hair and shortly after my teeth (pearly whites) weren't staying to pearly white anymore and then at 40 something I woke up one morning with that dreaded middle age buldge was 155-160 lbs all my life now I wished I could see anything below 200 BUT you know what this is who God made me and if this is who I'm supposed to be then so be it there's a woman out there that will love me for who God made me NOT what man wants to form me into, you see I'm not truly content with how I look but I could look alot worse LOL.
And the ex-thing just keep close to God and if your ex has any decent God fearing bones in his body he will come to his senses and act like a man of God instead of someone with the devil inside of him, remember when you pray to God to ask in the right way, it's not that you should ask so much "for him to stay away" as to ask God to show him how he is acting and lay it on his heart to straighten up and act like a man of God,
you see I don't think God is so much into the building of walls to protect as He is into the giving of ways to defeat if needed, throughout time He ALWAYS provided His people ways to defeat satan not building walls to keep satan out, if that was the case we would be in heaven here on earth because the walls would keep all evil out, but He gives us choice.
I hope some of this made sense, but most importantly stay close to God and ask for His guidence and He will bring you through these trials.
YOU ARE AWESOME!!!
God bless
Cuc

Hi Carmey,

I'm sorry to hear about all of the trials that you're going through. Sometimes it seems like when one problem occur, others follow. It's times like these that we have to Encourage ourselves in the Lord.

God didn't do this to you, but He allowed it. So that means that He has away out for you.

I pray that your desires line up with God's will for you and your thoughts line up with God's plan for you so that your prayers may be successful.

Remember the effectual fervent prayer of the righteous availeth much.

I am praying for you and I know soon you'll have a testimony that'll be out of this world because God is going to turn things around for you.