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really int got much ta say bout step 3.........

Was there anything in step 3 that you can apply? I mean step 3 talks about grace and forgiveness...do you mean to say you have noone to forgive...and you don't need to be forgiven?

Please share??

luv ya

hurtn me dunt mattar. i ont know, i live in my world, i tryin stay outa evary1 elses. proly do...... but i try my best ta leave ppl alone

heya semp....is this where things shut down for you? i know it used to be for me. was just wondering if maybe this is where its too overwhelming to deal with...

still with ya, friend.

in Jesus,
momo

semp...you've talked about your mom before...have you forgiven her for the things she's said to you? You say you stay to yourself...have you forgiven those people who you say don't like you? Have you forgiven yourself for all the things you blame yourself for?

Be honest with yourself semp...cuz it's the only way to heal...

luv ya

Superfide

I wasn't going to post because all I want to say Is I love ya!
But I know you'll reject that love I am extending.
That's ok, cause I've been there myself.

I couldn't help but thinking about how people keep posting to you.
Makes me wonder why?
I mean don't they have lives?
Don't they have things to do besides posting?
They could be watching tv or playing solitaire or something.
But instead they choose to be here, walking with you, encouraging you.

It's agape love superdooper. They are giving and not expecting anything in return. Because they love you and so do I. This love with in us comes from God placing it there. It is my continued prayer that one day soon you will receive the love.

If you leave, there will be an empty chair that no one can fill, except you. You will be missed! I know you don't want to believe me, but it is the truth. Hear those whispers attack as soon as you read these words? That's the enemy. He's placing lies with in your mind and stealing the truth. It's time to stop him from stealing from you.

God loves you superdooperfide and so do I.

Semper...one more question...you stated in an earlier step that you thought you were going to hell....why do you think that...is it because you don't believe in God's forgiveness?

luv ya

ive always felt like im gointa hell... fer as long as i cin remembar. HE said ta 'honor ur father n mothar' well i caint honor sum1 who dunt deserve honor. i got no respect fer neithara them, n nevar will. bein round my mothar (she is my mothar, not mom. havina child makes a female a mothar, a mom takes cara the child) jus makes life worse, so soons i culd git away from her, i did. i do far bettar on my own than w/ her round.

Pine, i ont know y..... i honestly ont know. i int ona good connection righnow so i int postn much. i ont know how long its gonna last, it wont even leme on chat, least i thank ats the reason.

momof3, im reachn at point quickly. i int sayin y, cus i caint take hearin ne1 elses story bout it happenin ta them, i jus caint handle at. itll jus havta stay inside, i jus caint do it righnow

Hello Semper,

Chat has been down (out of commission) since 8:45 am (eastern time) this morning -- no one has been able to use Chat. It's being worked on.

God bless you.
Sister Mack

Good morning semper

Sounds like you have some anger against your parents...and this is the root of the hurt you are carrying.....God gives us commandments to follow in order to help guide us in the direction we should go...but the Bible also says this to parents...

Ephesians 6:4
And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.

Colossians 3:21
Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged.

God knows what we you have been through Semper...and God judges not based on what we do...but what is in our heart. If you repent and ask God to forgive you then He does...and He never picks it up again. Won't you accept God's forgiveness? This is grace.

luv ya

ya, i know it says at, but HE cares more bout the parents gitn respect, wethar they dserve it er not. the 1 bout honorin ur parents says if yont u die. parents apparently cin do w/e they want ta thar kids. my hearts nevar workd...... i ont know howta make it work neithar. i feel nothing.. like the trace adkins song 'i wanna feel something'. i know i usualy stop in what appears ta b 'mid sentence or mid thought', n ats right. jus how my mind works, caint help at. its jus how my mind does thangs.

No semper that is not true...God does not care more about your parents getting respect...He cares more about you allowing Him to love you. In fact God does not allow parents to do whatever they want to children...in fact look what the Bible says about those who hurt children including parents and remember the verses I quoted earlier about parents do not provoke your children? Well that means offend as well...

Matthew 18
1 At the same time came the disciples unto Jesus, saying, Who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?
2 And Jesus called a little child unto him, and set him in the midst of them,
3 And said, Verily I say unto you, Except ye be converted, and become as little children, ye shall not enter into the kingdom of heaven.
4 Whosoever therefore shall humble himself as this little child, the same is greatest in the kingdom of heaven.
5 And whoso shall receive one such little child in my name receiveth me.
6 But whoso shall offend one of these little ones which believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth of the sea.

God does not want his children hurt....God never wanted you to be hurt...but you hold unforgiveness against your parents...and this is where you need to begin working...forgiving your parents doesn't mean that what they did to you is right...it just means your not allowing the hurt and pain you suffered from your parents to hold you captive any longer...

Time to set the hurt within down...time to let Jesus come and help you..

luv ya