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I think i left off at day 4 but anyway forgive myself and forgive others this is one thing that is really hard to do i have fallen soooo hard that i thought this program was useless until someone told me to get back so i am i feel like that god has left me and got tired of me forgiving and me keep going back to the same thing i asked forgiveness for im stuck in a hole i feel like and i can barely see the light i need some help yall i really need some help please please give me some guidance

Hey dmorrow!!! Welcome home my friend.

You know what? I've fallen hard too...many times...but it's not about how hard we fall but that we get up. Jesus is there dmorrow and He wants to help you up.

Forgiving ourself is hard...because we tend to beat ourselves up over and over for something we did...but Jesus doesn't want us to do that. See He died for all of our sins...and He wants us to repent and get up...and move forward again.

Forgiving others is very needed for you to make progress. It doesn't mean that you are saying that it was ok for them to do what they did...it is releasing you of the pain and anger you feel towards them for what they did.

You can do this dmorrow...I'm so glad your home.

luv ya

hey dmorrow..so glad you are back. my brother, you are in the right place. if i had a penny for every time i fell, every time i failed...asked for forgiveness, only to go do the same thing id asked for forgiveness for, i could buy a state the size of Texas. This is the way of our sinful natures...the whole reason we need Jesus and God's mercy. His blood covers it, bro...ask Him, let it go, get back up, dust off and move forward.

We all need His forgiveness, bro. Every day. Seeking Him and getting to know His heart...through the tools like this counceling program, the Bible, the instruments He gives and uses is what we need to seek. He changes us, bro..from the inside. He hasnt given up on you. He loves you so much more than you know.

Keep walking and know that if He hasnt given up on you, which He never will, dont you give up on what He wants to do in and through you.

in Jesus,
luv momo

Dmarrow Glad to see you are back.
I believe it was a God thing that you came back.
You've been on my heart as well as others, I'm sure.
Forgiveness is something I have to keep coming back to over and over.
A brother told me last night, don't think of what you've done, think of what you want to do. Really makes since and truly is the ticket of letting go and moving forward.
God is calling you to let go D so you can move forward with him.
We all error. We all have our demons.
One step at a time.

Love ya bro, sending up prayers for you.
God does love you, just as you are and so do I.