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My wife has been chatting on this site where everyone has a 3d avatar. Her avatar is usually doing some provacotive things with the male avatars she talks with daily. I thought that we had discussed this, and I had told her how this makes me feel, and today I saw her "avatar" in the lap of some dude avatar with arms around his neck kissing and "chatting" and now she is upset at me for spending so much time at the oasis. I am not sure how to deal anymore....

I must hold my faith at all costs...

Dear brother,

I am praying for restoration within your marriage, but above all, for God's will to be done in both your lives.

I can imagine how hurtful it is, to see your wife participating in such things. I know many see it as harmless, but thats a trick of the enemy to get his hooks into us and then he raises the stakes.

How do you deal? By givin it to the Lord and resisting the urge to let the flesh react. Brother, pray for guidance, and God will show you the way.

Keep fighting the good fight cloud.

Blessings to you in Jesus name.

Awww cloud wow. I'm sorry to hear all of this is going on. No matter what the issues are, you have something stronger than the trials. That is Jesus. Jesus can bring a calm over your marriage, if you will only ask Him to do so. I can understand how your wife's actions are hurting you. I know this can't be easy for you. Right now though, you have to continue growing with God. Allow God to make a work in you. He can reach your wife. Just give her over to Him.

Take care and God Bless

Cloud,

You voiced your feelings to your wife, and now you have to turn the problem over to God. I know how hard this is, because I myself am having relationship problems. My Boyfriend and I have been on the outs since Easter. I kept wanting to run it down in the ground about how I felt and the changes I wanted to happen. Through a lot of prayer and listening to God I have realized that I had to let him know how I felt and then just leave it to God. God will work miracles in your life, and he is working them in my life. I turned my problems to God and he provides the answer in his time. My boyfriend and I are starting to talk more, but just taking things one day at a time and I still pray daily for him.

I will keep you and your wife in my prayers as well.

God Bless You!