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Posted: **Wed Oct 13, 2010 8:54 pm**

What is a quality in your spouse that you just adore?

You know the thing that melts your heart.

Or maybe she/he doesn't melt your heart anymore because there's to much friction, divisions or hard feelings. Then what is something she/he does that makes you smile, maybe just a tiny bit if nothing more.

Or what was the one thing when you were in love that he/she did that melted your heart.

For me it was and is how quickly he forgives me.

Hope to hear some others.

Posted: **Wed Oct 13, 2010 10:53 pm**

SHE STANDS BY HER MAN, EVEN WHEN I'M CHURLISH & EVIL IN MY DOINGS *Pirate*

IF IT WERE'NT FOR THIS QUALITY, I'D ALREADY BE HISTORY! *swoosh*

Posted: **Thu Oct 14, 2010 6:24 am**

oh bilge!!! *hug*

That blessed my heart. Nearly made me cry. Thank you for sharing!!!!!

God bless you and your wife. *Pray*

Posted: **Thu Oct 14, 2010 12:55 pm**

My hubby can be very funny. He has a great sense of humor and can make us all laugh. When he is in a good mood.....it is a lot of fun.

Posted: **Thu Oct 14, 2010 4:06 pm**

That is so cool sb. A house hold should be filled with laughter.
Picturing you all hanging out laughing. Thanks for the smile!

Keep thinking of those times sb. Hold them tight to your heart. Let them replay over and over. And over!

Is that what attracted you to him to begin with sis?
*hug*

Posted: **Thu Oct 14, 2010 6:12 pm**

So many things attracted me to him when we first married. We like so many of the same things, raised in similar family backrounds, we both had been divorced and he was raising his son as I was a daughter and son. It all seemed to be a great match. But, like a lot of my life, it was not all it seemed and I did not see many of the bad things until later. We have been married 16 years....and not all of them good. BUT, We do love each other. He loves me so much more now than ever. I am learning to get over a lot of hurt to love him again. We are praying for more reasons to laugh and enjoy our lives together.

Posted: **Mon Dec 06, 2010 2:46 am**

He has this way of exclaiming that just sets me laughing. Say like when i do something funny, he just sets me off with the surprised look on his face. And the accompanying eclamation is priceless. I love it when he makes me laugh. lol

Posted: **Mon Dec 06, 2010 9:46 am**

Aw you both blessed me with your responses.

Made me smile. Thanks for sharing.

Posted: **Tue Dec 07, 2010 5:26 pm**

The quality i love about my husband is the fact that even though he is out of his momma's house, he sees it as his job to go mow her lawn or fix whatever might need fixing

Posted: **Tue Dec 07, 2010 6:40 pm**

aww

Mrs.Kitty

One thing I like about YOU is that you like the fact that he takes care of his momma. Some wouldn't want to share. It shows that you have love in your heart for others when you can feel good about him going.

God bless and keep you.

Posted: **Wed Dec 08, 2010 12:37 am**

Oh pine!

Good question!

too many to list!

ok ok I will list a few

I just adore his chivalry! He is such a gentleman who knows how to treat this lady

The way he lights up when reading The Word.

Oh my i cannot forget that sense of humor! And his quick wit.

the list goes on and on

God bless!

♥Jill

Posted: **Wed Dec 08, 2010 9:00 am**

sorry Pine I saw this and thought of 1 thing that I always was proud of my wife for and yes it made me smile, but since the separation I think it has lacked and that sorrows me
Her love and willingness to spend time with the Lord daily no matter how the rest of her day went she ALMOST ALWAYS spent time with the Lord daily, she was an inspiration to me (although it didn't help)
thank you for reminding me of something good in this time of uncertainy in my life, and for bringing it to my attention to want to talk to her about this and let her know that I am hoping she stays close to God daily as she always did
Cuc