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Plz, I ask beforehand that no one judge me and I also want to apologize if I have disappointed any of you. On Friday I went to the store an brought a pregnancy test. I didn't really think that I was pregnant (in face I was trying to convince myself I wasn't) but I knew I was late and I wanted to rule out pregnancy for the cause. I was wrong...the test came back pos. Today I went to the doctors and I am in fact pregnant, I am 4 weeks 2 days to be exact. I don't know who the father is and I don't know what I'm doing to do. I'm thinking about adoption, but I really just don't know what I am going to do. I am so so so sorry if I let any of you down. I hope you can forgive me.

[susidivah]

Via,

I am so glad you were comfy to share here... I know how scared and overwhelmed you are now with decisions that will need to be made.

As far as I'm concerned (and I'm sure I speak for many if not all here) you have nothing to apologize for. And you could not let our Father down either... He forgives always if you just truly ask.

Via you are taking responsibility in your actions in seeing the doctor and thinking about a plan for the future. Please also remember that God is with you every step of the way, and although sometimes there are circumstances that we did not plan it is all His Plan. Keep sharing, with us and I hope you still can with your counselor. I pray too Via there is family you may seek support from as well.

Love you dearly, sis, and will talk soon,
Susi

[mlg]

Via, as we discussed on Friday...God has a plan for both you and the baby. Don't be afraid...just trust and rely on His guidance. My prayers are with you, and I'm here if you need to share.

luv ya

[verdad100]

Hey Via,

I'm glad that you shared with us. God indeed does have a plan for you and for your child weither that be adoption of if you do decide to keep the child. Everything happens for a reason sis. If you ever need to talk about anything or need advice I'm just a pm away.

Love ya sis and GBU,
verdad

[xxJILLxx]

via,

no judgement here sis, u know better than that

u do not need to apologize for anything. Babies are precious and are miracles within themselves.

i can understand that u might be a lil confused and scared and maybe even a little excited.

what ever u decide to do whether it be adoption or to keep this child we will be here to support your decision. And God is right there with ya sis waiting to grab hold of yr hand and walk with you through this.

i can say that i myself, who was a young mother, faced alot of the same circumstaces that you are in. I wasnt fortunate enuff to be around friends who supported me and encouraged me . So for that via i hope you find you are very blessed to have a bunch like us supporting you and lifting you up in prayer.

God bless you sis and this lil one.

♥Jill

[Godzchild]

As I mentioned b4 in another post in here...God has His hand in EVERYTHING.

It was not by accident that I was in the S.O.S room last night, it was His divine plan.

I barely know you but what I have come to know I "love VERY much".Consider me to be in your corner along with Jesus and the other brothers and sisters here on this site.

There is NO condemnation at the cross my lil'sis, and you must not allow the devil to obscure your thots to think differently. If all the ppl in the world who made mistakes or did something foolish were not allowed to be in heaven; that would be an empty place.

Your redeemed by His blood and forgiven by His grace, the choice is merely now.."do you really believe it?"

If your answer is 'yes' then you walk tall, hold your head high and tackle this new situtation in your life as a Child of the Most High God.

If your answer is 'no', then return to His word thru fasting and prayer until you know that you know you have been forgiven. There is an AWESOME community of believers here on this site, do not be bashful to use us to His full potential.

Have a gr8 day my friend....and remember your 2 Blessed 2B stressed!!

[splash]

Via,

Although this may not seem like the right time for you to have a baby, you haven't caught God by surprise. No life is formed apart from Him. He has a plan for you and for your baby that is for your good and not your harm.

Psalm 139:13-16
For You formed my inward parts;
You covered me in my mother's womb.
I will praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
Marvelous are Your works,
And that my soul knows very well.
My frame was not hidden from You,
When I was made in secret,
And skillfully wrought in the lowest parts of the earth.
Your eyes saw my substance, being yet unformed.
And in Your book they all were written,
The days fashioned for me,
When as yet there were none of them.

I'm sure we'll have opportunity to talk more in the chatroom!

Love ya,

Splashi