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Okay, guys. Since one of the issues I WAS dealing with is behind me, and the main one I came here for advice for, I'm going to leave. You can keep posting in here and any topics that are created. I feel I'm grown up enough to leave the flock of the forum, but not God's flock. So, even though there may have been disagreements, I appreciate you all putting up with me. May God continue to bless, and help you in your life.

Why leave? Don't you enjoy the fellowship? People talking to you? what is the purpose of leaving?

dema wrote:Why leave? Don't you enjoy the fellowship? People talking to you? what is the purpose of leaving?

I'm leaving because I feel I've gotten all I could out of it. And yes, I do enjoy talking to people. I do enjoy the fellowship. Not saying anything mean about you guys. You've been helpful, and kind as can be. Another thing is, I'm just getting bored on all the forums I've joined. I'm not on too many, but I just need to not be on here anymore. So, good bye. God bless.

You can be a blessing to others. This site isn't as active as it used to be. But there are several of us who pick a time of day and come onto the site and check new messages on the new messages page. And we read the messages and answer where we feel called. I suggest you pray about whether you are called to do that too. People need to be encouraged. It feels good to get answers. And sometimes friendships develop from encouraging others.

I've had many friendships that lasted months or years and then they kinda drift away. But the people come back once in a while and tell me hello and that things are better now. I like that. I feel it is important to just be there when people are down.

So every morning (when the site works for me) at around 6:15AM (later on weekends) I check in and look to see if anybody needs a little encouragement.

Even I'll pray for you - can mean a lot.

You know something dema? You're right. I'm gonna stick around. I need to really learn to not leave if things aren't going my way. That's what it boiled down to. I wasn't getting my way. I just felt like I had to be the boss on here, and every forum I've ever joined. It's not gonna happen anymore. I'll be sticking around and giving advice if I feel called.

Just gonna stay for good. I don't know why I feel I have to go away when debates start. And I'm the one who starts them. I'm here for good guys. I want to try to be a beacon of light, instead of a child of the devil.