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Hello brothers and sisters!
It seems like for the last year my wife has not read the bible , we don`t pray together so we can stay together but there always been a spieir of strife , arguement from her side as me being a christian to use that too manipulate me in doing everything my wife say to do , even to the point of taken all my money, telling me to stay away from my friends even certain churches I should not go too.
She is using a control spirit after me , to control where I`ve been what I doing and even controled to give me telephone terror when ever I go out.
She hate religious people, specially African even though I am black myself she hate their customs, and traditions as she calls them all ignorance and I should not help any african even in their churches as I have blessed them with music because they don`t know good music, and are very lord and agreesive.We are at the momont in two different worlds , while I am mostly reading the bible on the internet , or listening to sermons for study for my tv broadcast while she is always in front of the tv watch every demonic movie like zombie , every new exocist films or watching people who are going through issues in a family on tv, hate and divorce shows, everyday and almost all the time when we have free time.
She yells at the kids, control them every 15 minutes, and hate if anyone make any noices in the next apartment or run above us in the house or walk to hard or below in the apartment were we are living and starts banging on the floor with a hammer or yell out the window to be quite.
People think my wife is crazy and no one like her, she is the talk of my nieborhood, and it has spoil my witnnesing to anyone.
People see me as not being a man at all forget being a christian.
Sense I have been banned from many churches and banned from so called christian chat and christian bible studies and different sites she has a attitude to even start hating christians period like she does African people.
Don`t know what to do but keep commanding these demons out of house, but it is very hard.
Because I have been doing tv evangelism I am on the front line with more demonic attacks than any other person, and I have n prayer partners, not even my own church I attend support me or my ministry, they never call me and ask how I doing when I don`t show up in church for month and don`t really care.
So for the last two month I have not been back to my own church which has over 500 members in the church that attend the church every sunday and it is the biggest church in my state as such here in germany.
I holds a thousand people, but everyone is in their own groups and there is division in the church itself as being different groups and different friends nd not everyone is one family.
So really don`t know what to do, but just work on my job over time so I can stay more away from my wife and even go sometimes in my celler to hav peace and quite or stay in a park to be able to hear God and speak to Him.
Sometime I have more peace on my job than home and when everyone else is so happy to go home after work I am unhappy to leave work as such.
Even my kid are so controlled they start not answering the cell phone and that is even more problem with my wife and all hell breaks out.
So we need alot of prayers and advice.
All my old friends that know what is happening in my house said to leave my home as soon as possible before I go totally crazy, and lose my mind and respect.
Thank you so very much if anyone else can give some helping words of wisdom

Enjoy oyur blessings
Shalom

Hello Evangelist

I am very sorry to hear of the spiritual turmoil that is going on in your marriage, which has had a negative effect on all areas of your life, with the possible exclusion of your work place.

In the brief times we have spoken in Chat, you mentioned you have 2 children. And from what you have shared in your post, it seems your wife's overwhelming desire to control every aspect of life is far reaching, even to the point of setting herself at odds with the very people she loves most: her husband and children, and yes...even God Himself.

You mentioned your wife stopped reading The Bible about a year ago, but also mentioned: "...but there always been a spieir of strife". Does she perhaps also have a lot of fear which manifests itself in her worrying about everything?

Sometimes the enemy of our souls will bring great fear upon people, especially women, and then he (the enemy) convinces those same fearful people to get angry, in order to overcome their fear. Sadly, this is contrary to the teachings of our Lord and Saviour, but it is a learned behavior that many of us were taught at an early age from the world and from many of the very people who raised us or had a lot of influence on us growing up.

I will be lifting you and your family up in prayer to our Lord in the name of Jesus. God's blessed will be done.

Jesus loves you, all.

Sister Mack