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by **ciny** » Tue Feb 15, 2011 1:51 pm

WARNING THIS MY TRIGGER.......ABUSE...........
I thought i would open up and share this with you its about my exhusband and some of
the abuse i went through.
I dated is cousin before i started dateing him i fell head over heels in love with him we startes dateing
in the winter of 1986 and he asked me to marrie him in January of 1987 at church before the service
started. we wre married in June 27 of that year on his parents anniversary how convient.

His father was an ordained minister and he married us the minister of the church alowed us to use the
church and let him marries us.
the mariage was never costimated sorry cant spell we never did what to adults do when they wed....
i think thqt explains that well enough.
The marraige lasted a year i found out that he liked men thats not the only reason i left........................
I was angry and hated him along time God has gotten in mt heart to forgive him and love him again i pray
for him now and his family.

this was blocked out uo untill three years ago i rembered it in church in January go figure...................
It was june 1988
ok hear it comes cant belive iam sharing this better out then in my husband came home he told me he
wanted to take me fishing that he wanted to do something with me beacuse we had not done anything
together i was excited to go but felt something was not right.i alos wanted to obey him to. he caught the
blanket on fire .
i never got burnt God put the fire out my cloths never burnt just the blanket the scriptur vers came to
my mind that i learned in Sunday school a few years before came to my mind.

Phillippians 4:13 I can do all things through Christ who strenghtens me. i found the strenght to get out
of that mess. that day i found great strenght and courage and i herd a voice telling me to rember
the verse of scripture i told you to rember

ok you all probly think i nuts but as God is my witness when i was 14 years old i think i was 14 i had to
learn that scripture and i went to church and was qoteing it to the secrtary and i herd a voice telling me
to learn that vers and learn it well because your going to need it in a few years. i got the scripture wrong
i think.

i sometimes wounder if God new this was going to happen why didnt he stop it evne accused him of not
being there when he was righr there keeping me safe....no burns how awsome is that.
i left him a few weeks after that we devorced seven years ago January 31 they were going to do the deivorce
on valintines day on a day affter his birthday i didnt want him to have to think about that around his birthday
part of me did

Now its my choice to use this as a testiomony to help others and to keep letting God heal me and set me
free.....i feal more free affter i wrote this.......sorry its so grafic in nature..... had to get it out of me he did
other stuff but thats enough for now.

Isa 43:2 When thou passest through the waters, I will be with thee; and through the rivers, they shall not overflow thee: when thou walkest through the fire, thou shalt not be burned; neither shall the flame kindle upon thee.
(KJV)
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