I like to cook and people rave about my cooking - but I still don't like taking things to carry-ins and frequently cop out with a relish tray. Actually, deviled eggs go over very well almost all the time. I did nothing but deviled eggs or relish tray with deviled eggs for years because everything disappeared. It is so disheartening when other people don't like your favorite. I have taken my guacamole - which is unusual and yes I will share if you ask - and had people absolutely fall over themselves gushing. At church, nobody hardly touched it. Weird and green I guess.
In the last couple of years, I have been taking zucchini muffins. I've seen little kids getting seconds. Also will share if you ask.
Be careful with your crockpots and chilis - the spills can give severe burns. Don't just carry it propped between your legs in the car.
Queso can go over well with the right crowd. I think that is salsa, the block cheese with jalapenos in it (Velveeta Mexican or Queso blanca with jalapenos) and canned chili - or a cup of your own. Experiment and see how you like it. Add a little milk. My daughter is great with it - I have only been adequate to kinda good.

. I make excellent nachos at home, but they wouldn't transport well. Also true of my fajitas and cobbler.....
Good luck. (Think you might be an over achiever.) hugs.