Christianity Oasis Forum

[krystal]

I have always had a probably with forgiving myself.
I felt like i was worthless.
And as far as repenting of my sins and not doing them again...
that is so hard for me!
Sometimes I do not know if what i am doing is wrong
so i get scared and feel terrible anyways.
Those things i am unsure about are not dishonoring God,
but i don't think they are honoring him either.
I know i'm speaking very broadly, i am just trying to not spill out things too personal to me.
But I am speaking about my relationship with my boyfriend of 3 years.
We are both virgins and plan to stay that way until marriage, but what we do is out of passion and love.
Is it wrong?
I do not think so but i am so scared that i am just foolish or stupid.
I know the Bible says we shouldn't be lustful, but thats IMPOSSIBLE!
Am i blindly going against God when i am with my boyfriend?
We are planning to get engaged in the next 1-2 years so that we can get married after we graduate from college.
We are very responsible, and we are remaining abstinent for each other until marriage.
We have a place for God in our relationship also, but i just have never really known what the rules are about dating.
am i making sense or just babbling?
God bless.

[ciny]

Hi krystal,
First i want to say iam glad to see you taking the steps you and your r boyfriend are doing the right thing by wating to have sexual relations a wise chioce and a God choice i wish i had waited proud of you,

the forgiveness parti have problems forgiving my self to and it come with the abuse stuff we think we should have stopped it and in reality, you will come to see this as you continute to take the ccccc steps well in my part i was to young to stop it i dont totaly know your situation,i want to wish you well on your healing journy as you take thease steps,

Heavenly Father i lift up Krystal to you right now and ask you to bless her as she takes thease steps and let her see tyour love and forgiveness and reveal your self to her in a new way and bless her sand her boy friend in there decision to waite to have sexual realtions un till there married and strenghten in there relationship as they let you be there guide when they do get married it will be a strong healthy relationship in you In Jesus name amen.

[Dora]

Krystal waiting until marriage is a beautiful thing. May I ask why you are waiting to get married?

[Zemirah]

((((((Krystal))))) I wondered the same as Pine ... if you know you want to marry; that you plan to, why are you waiting? wouldn't that remove a lot of the guilt and concern you are feeling now