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Please pray for my husband and I. In the two and a half years since we got married, I have been pregnant three times. All of those babies are now in Heaven as they left early on in each pregnancy. While I find comfort that I will one day be with them again and that they are in a much better condition than I could ever provide, I miss them. We have been trying to get pregnant again, but have not been able to. I try to put it out of my mind, but every single month I find myself getting my hopes up. My husband will not often talk about these things with me, and I really need him to sometimes. My children are very real to me, and are on my mind all of the time. However, I understand that no one else got to bond with them. I know you can't replace a person, but I sure would love to have babies to hold now. I want my husband to feel like a father. I want to give my parents the grandchildren they have longed to hold. Most of all, I want to show people God's grace through my life.

I know it is really hard right now particularly.

Men tend to brood rather than talk. Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus is a good book. I hope you have women friends with whom you can talk.

Hugs.

((Ms. Joyful))

I am praying for you and your husband
I pray God will help your husband be able to communicate fully with you , that you will be given peace and joy through these trials , and that you both will be able to have a child.
God bless you both