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Please pray that my husband will be more compassionate. If I am having a problem or hurt or issue and it is something that wouldn't hurt or be a problem for him he comes down on me really hard about it or says really insensative things and I wish so much that he could be a safe loving place for me to go when I hurt. Then I shut down because when it gets to that point anything I say will make him more upset and he won' t even try to see or even ask why I am upset or anything he just assumes it's all my fault. He refuses to see how he could have any part in anything. We had a terrible day with this yesterday and i literally had a neverous breakdown. I had something that was really hurting me and then he said a bunch of insensitive things and I had a bunch of panic attacks. Please pray that God will help this problem.

I'm so sorry. I've been in that situation often in the past with my husband. But God seems to be working on his heart so he's so much better and supportive now. But I still tend to keep hurts etc to myself, as he's not a Christian and I just don't feel comfortable sharing certain things with him. Plus he's a guy and they just don't get it most of the time. I pray for God to fill you with His love and peace and strength, and for a mighty touch upon your husband and your marriage. God bless!

Thank you....God bless:)

I'm so sorry for your struggle. I know how difficult it can make every day be difficult to enjoy. Praying for you and him right now.



And yes you are not just a number. You are so much more than just a number. You're His precious daughter whom He loves so dearly and whom cares about this situation and every situation. Even ever single hurt, big or small.