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one of my oldest daughter's BFF's is in CPS (child protective services) because of inapproppropriate actions of her dad and
negligence of her mom. i havent talked to my daughter yet. shes at school, but she has spent time at this girls house.

please pray. she's just turned 16.

Father, I ask for an open door that words and care be released with wisdom and understanding
in Jesus name I pray

Amen!

Praying here sorta

thanks yall...haven't heard anything yet

prayers rising for all involved. May God's perfect will be done in and through this.

In Jesus' name

love momo

My prayers are with you & daughter. God bless you.

I know no one will judge here so I am going to tell you a bit about my father. This kind of explains why I am not like the average male, it is also why I have never dated. My dad molested my Brother that died, Brian, my sister Melissa, and I. He also cheated on my mother countless times and was into Pornography heavy. The only thing I share with the man is his Baldness and his name, Thank God. I don't look at Pornography or any of that and I am waiting on the person God has for me. A lot of my depression comes from the what happened but it is in the past you can't change it just move onward and upwards towards Christ.

I hope no ones offened it wasn't easy writing this out and all, but I hope it helps someone.

Your Brother in Christ,
Robert

dear brother Robert,
I am glad you are here and able to share with us, and NO one should judge you for things you had no control over.
I was lucky as far as my father and that sort of thing but I was not so lucky in other area's,
As for your strength at not allowing porn to come into your life now, says alot about you and your strength
Porn is just another way satan attacks men and women, the worst part is it WILL consume you if you start.

It is worse than you can imagine in todays world, someone like yourself being a victim of it knows how much hurt it can inflict, but what most don't know is how it starts as innocent as a sales ad or a part in a movie, our world today is rampant with porn EVERYWHERE you look and our kids are being brainwashed to think things are ok when they aren't, such as what they watch, how they dress, things they say, even things they do.
I was part of a youth group that was trying to attack this head on with our kids during one of our (seperated) sessions - boys and girls one of the leaders informed the other leaders later one "unnamed" girl did NOT think oral sex was sex this is exactly what I'm talking about, this is our kids. (sorry for the bluntness but thats what it going to take)

You will find that "right one" the Lord has for you in his timing, and you are so right you have a story that someone out there NEEDS to hear that is part of why God led you back here, but the other is for you to find healing, please continue to do both because you are a needed part of our family!!

Lord, I ask for Your presence to settle upon Robert and help him to heal from his past and move to the future with You at his side, I also ask that you give him peace in knowing You were in control of his brother's passing not him, and that no matter what he would have or could have done it was your will that allowed his leaving this earth to join You in heaven where there is NO more pain or suffering and now he is up there with You waiting for Robert to join when the time comes so they can be at peace with You forever
Amen

May God bless you Robert and give you the strength to continue the journey He has for you.
Cuc

Dearest sister sorta,
I am with you in prayer for all involved in this tragedy I pray MOST for the girls to be given peace and allow them healing from these images of things past I pray for you to have the strength and words to comfort your daughter in this trying time
and I pray for healing and forgiveness for all those involved and or His will to be done as He sees fit as the judge of judges.
I will never understand why we would be allowed to allow these things to happen, I understand free will but I cannot understand how it can be allowed to go this far before God steps in and says enough, but I guess it is the same as with death who are we to question Him.
I am SO sorry for all affected by this sickness
May God bless you all

i posted here, but it seems to have vanished into cyberspace...

guess i'll repost
thank you all for your contiued prayer.
anyways, the girl was at school yesterday. my daughter said she was tearful.

robert, God bless you and thank you for sharing. continue to grow in Christ. seek Him in all things. pray without ceasing!

To God be all glory and praise.

thank you cuc...these things i know i wont really understand in this life.

love you, bro...thank you for posting. thank you and all for your prayers thru this.