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I got my yearly performance eval at work today. I received 4s and 3s with 3s being meet expectations and 4 being exceeds. I also received one 2. I dint talk to my supervisor cuz what was the point? I just signed it. But the reason I got a 2 was because in July a position opened up in my hometown and they knew i have been wanting to go back there. Well, they dint even interview me. He just told me right before management team meeting that i didnt get it. Well, i went to my car and had a little cry and then went into management meeting. I did not say anything to anyone. I just kept my eyes down, scribbled on my paper and yes I was upset but I did not say anything but he said it was embarassing and i was unprofessional and then said i was doing it again from the look on my face. So, i guess its unprofessional to have feelings. I spoke with HR director and handed him my eval and told him what had happened and then just said i needed a decent raise because i couldnt even go see my family. And he said he never would have told me right before management team meeting. And i guess he was gonna talk to my supervisor, i dunno. But he's gonna call me on Tuesday and we will talk then about my raise. I told him I was not going to apply for any more down there that i did not see the point, i needed to accept where i was. I cried all the way back. Even though overall I got a good score, Im heartbroken. Im sure i will come to an acceptance of this, but right now it just hurts.

my goldie

my singing sister

those people may have given that evaluation, but sis? God is in control. This door may seem like its been closed, but never underestimate the power of our God and His infinite wisdom and knowledge. When we dont get what we so badly want sometimes, we must trust that God knows why He didnt not allow that to happen. And we know He loves us so much, that He would never deny us good things... cuz sometimes what seems to be right and good to us... can end up causing us problems later on down the line. God sees where we cannot. Trust in Him ok

And never settle Hold on to your dreams, and pray for God's will to be done above all else

Eph 3:20-21 Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us, Unto him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus throughout all ages, world without end. Amen.

I luv u sis
wanna share a plate of spaghetti?
I promise, no sneezies on this one

Awww bless ur heart my singing sista. I did think that God has His reasons after I got turned down although it took me a day. It just bothered me that he also reflected it on my yearly eval. But it is what it is. And I had accepted being here. It just hurt that he took it further than it needed to go. But, God's will be done. Awww sketti sounds awesome and im glad there will be no sneezies i luv ya sis
GBu