Bad at boundaries

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Bad at boundaries

Postby goldieluvs » Sat Jul 12, 2008 10:15 am

Ok foj asked for an update. Well, friend is still here. He has failed to follow through with even applying for food stamps. I did pay for him to go to doctor to get some antidepressant medication which will get on Tuesday, its on 4.00 list at Wal Mart. I told him yesterday that he has one month to get a job and get functional again that I could not continue. This time i am sticking to it. I told him again today too. Although i was aggravated cuz he does absolutely nothing except eat and sleep. I have had all I can take, God forgive me for that. But I have told him that he has to be functional again and have a job within a month which i think is plenty of time. He will have his meds and that should help. I gotta draw the line. I have questioned in chats where the line is in dealing with people and i was given advice to give a time frame and expectations and results of failure. So, I have been clear that if he doesnt have a job he has to leave. I will keep praying.
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