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I came across this article off a Facebook post. It really made me think. When we think of porn we think of it as a man's problem but this was written from a woman's view point and I know that I could so understand what she was talking about. It really began to give me insight into my own issues. How we as women don't want to think or talk about having a problem with porn to think we are alone and the only one who does it. We need more women to step into the light and help those who are too afraid to stand together and know we are not alone in this struggle.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/lauren-dubinsky/porn-addiction_b_1686481.html

Dearest sister,
it has been since I started here but I read a simular story and this may even be it but yes that is the same as when I came this this site and realized the amount of women that had this issue as I do it shocked me but at the same time it gave me a sense of not being so ashamed to talk to and in front of them, so yes I agree that women should stand and know I will not judge them cause I know the addiction and it's evil and ALL the things this artical claims!
And for those who judge it do not understand it....and heres a newsflash THAT ain't going to help!
it's like anything in our society it gets ignored or shunned until it is totally out of control and millions suffer then oh lets do something to change it, porn is running RAMPENT through our society and the internet has absolutey BLOWED it of of the water!
I spoke with my Pastor when I first came out about this addiction and he was under the impression "how much do you spend if you get if off the internet"......I explained to him in a gentle way he had no clue NOR did he want to know how much was there for ANYONE to see!!! yes I said ANYONE, they say oh kids can't see......BULL!!!! no double BULL!!!
if you do not have this addiction or ever done any searching of it YOU have no clue either!!
sadly I DO and HAVE!!!
it is sickening....any and ALL kinds period!!!
and now even "dating" sites that are ADVERTISING SEX NOT DATES and with who MARRIED WOMEN THAT ARE BORED AT HOME!!!
So yes sis please help to get these women to stand up and help to out this for how bad it has gotten.
and yes it helped to destroy my life all but totally.

God bless
Cuc