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Hello all,

As you all know I'm dealing with baby daddy drama. It's been almost a month since I kicked him out, but he still comes to make sure the kids go to school and we try to have family days with the kids. Now the bad part is that he is still trying to hold on to me. For awhile he seems to be dealing with everything just fine, then all of a sudden he get's angry and start saying how I'm heartless and don't care how he don't have no where to go. I'm being as nice as I can. If he is hungry, I don't mind feeding him. I still got him under my car insurance, which that probably isn't a good idea. Anyway my question is how do you deal with a person that you can't tell how he going to react? If I talk to him or laugh with him as friends he takes it another way, if I'm timid around him, which I am majority of the time he gets angry. I tell him to just worry about the kids and not about us, but it don't work. I'm trying my hardest not to lash out on him. I get so nervous around him because I don't know how to act around him.

awwwwwwwww Jonelle, just be yourself around him. If he thinks things are different than what u mean and he says something, then you can say that is not how u meant it. Honesty is a good thing and sticking to boundaries is good as well. (not that i am that good at it, but its what everyone says) Open communication is important too. Keep praying, God won't lead ya wrong. We cannot control another person but we can control ourselves and what we let ourselves be around and how much. Know those are tough decisions.....