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I am so frustrated anymore with it comes to relationships. I always thought when a guy likes you that he is the one who pursues you, not the other way around. It's hopeless for me for when I talk to a guy and think we have something in common, he looks elsewhere to find something better. Perhaps that is why I am struggling with my celibacy for I want to start dating again but can't. I know that God has someone in mind for me and that He wants me to draw closer but it has become a difficulty. I have to say the online dating sites are worthless for that is what I am on and it does exactly what real men would do. Talk to me at first and when he finds someone better, drops me like a fly. It's so frustrating. I know there are other things to do in my time and this shouldn't be on the top but I wanted to vent that out for I know others are struggling with that as well. As for my celibacy, I am afraid to call my male friend to come over so we can do what we did the last time. I don't want to but anymore I feel like I'm not as worthy as I should be.

I apologize for going all over the place but I wanted to say something. Please understand I am not attacking, I'm concerned of what I could end up doing. Please pray that there is control and I need to focus on something else. Thanks.

hope

I hear ya with that one. i'll definitely pray regarding your concerns. It is hard to understand how to navigate relationships. It's very vry difficult, i always thought and still do.

hugs my friend.
whisp

No worries hope, venting is always good! ( well unless yr venting to the direct person, then that might cause some problems and some hurtful things said that u cant take back )

During those times that we feel rejected, we should run to our Father, not the "friend". God will never reject us, He welcomes us with loving arms.

Run to Him sis, Hes waiting.

My prayers are with u,

Gb
♥Jill