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It is very true..forgiving yourself is the hardest part of forgiving in general.. I placed alot of blame on myself for things. My fathers suicide for one.. I don't blame myself that he did it, but that I didnt try to stop him. I never told anyone in my family about the conversation my Dad and I had. That he told me he was going to kill himself. Not in those exact words but he more or less did tell me. I just didn't think he would actually do it. (and of course yes I was angey he did it)
I blamed myself for not trying, calling someone, the police anything.. but now I see it isn't my fault..and I'm not to blame!
I've always had the tendency to be harder on myself than others, maybe we all do to some extent. But, now I feel God is helping me. Jesus is healing me so I can move forward. I really want to be productive and do for God in my life. Getting past all this will be so great and free me to be who God wantes me to be..

Hello AbbyNicole

God bless you this day.

I'm happy for you -- happy that you are embracing the truths shared within each Stepping Stone of the CCCC Study, and applying God's Truth to your life. Thank You Jesus \o/ \o/ \o/

I have read the CCCC Study numerous times over the years, and with each reading I benefit, greatly. We have a real enemy, Satan, and he is not easily deterred from his desire to trip us up. Remember, God loves you, and when and/or if you find yourself having a bad day, pray and meditate on the Word of God and be renewed.

Meditating on the Word of God is the same as dining on The Word of God, which is a blessed thing -- it is nourishment to your soul.

Matthew 4:4King James Version (KJV)

4 But he [Jesus] answered and said, It is written, Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceedeth out of the mouth of God.

Note: Emphasis [] added by Mack

Prayers continue to rise to our Lord in the name of Jesus on your behalf. God's will be done.

God bless and keep you.
In Christ Jesus' love,
Sister Mack

Again thank you for the kind words, Sister.
God Bless to you and all involved on keeping this site running.