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Now that I'm letting Michael forget about our friendship in his own time, how do I get over him totally? I feel I've grieved far too long, and need to get over him, so I can get back to reality. Thanks.

Ah, so you DO miss Michael. Do you feel that he was good for you? Or not bad for you? Do you feel that you were good for him? How does Michael's mother control him to such an extent? He's a grown man. He should be able to get government assistance to find a job and get his own place. He shouldn't have to stay at home like a child his whole life.

Perhaps you should pray to God about what is BEST for you to do. Children are to obey their parents in the Lord. IN THE LORD.

We are all to honor our parents. But honoring doesn't mean remaining as a child at 36. Perhaps it is time for Michael to build a life for himself - to see what government programs exist for him to move out and be on his own. And perhaps you should help him if he does that.

When you can, pray until you have peace. The answers come in the peace.

All I'll say is this: I'm over him as of last night, the 13th. Done talking about him.