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I found out a week ago that my husband has been having a emotional affair with someone else. I am hurting so deeply and I don't know how to stop the hurt. We have made a new commitment to one another but the pain and anger is so great. I just joined this site, needing some one to understand and pray for me.

You have my prayers.
Keep coming back and express yourself as you will find this be good for you.
We also have a chatroom you can go to and talk with others.
There is power in prayer and I admire your willingness to make things work.
Welcome to Oasis.

GBU

Real

I am so sorry for your pain and struggles. I do care. Praying for you and your marriage. It sounds as if God is in the midst of repairing things. God bless!

Day 2 of journaling,
I looked at yesterdays phone calls on his phone and there was calls again to these people. He is involved with a chat line and there are a few people as I caught it last week. They are not using the chat line for positive things. He admitted to me and he is struggling to be in line with the Lord, My wound was reopened this morning, so angry.....Lord help me in this, I need you to move in this situation, remove them, satan be gone!!!! I know Lord that there is sooo much in this world that makes it harder but I know through you we can overcome as your word states. As he left this morning Lord I became angry again in my hurt, I ask Lord that while he is gone that a wall of protection will be placed around him and everything that is not of you will be flushed out and he will be able to gain the self control that we are to have over our bodies and minds, Lord I ask for me that you will mend the pain and help me to stay angry at the situation and not the people involved, I want to see you glorified in this matter, I want to see your hand move so people will see and hear that it was you that moved and restored. You get the glory, help me to maintain. Thank you Lord for this site as I was needing some where to vent and be a place to feel safe where you are the priority and that my pain could be heard. As I was looking for somewhere you put this in front of me, thank you, show me Lord where I can find a local church that I can feel safe in, in this small community. Amen
Thank you friends

Praying and caring.

I'm sorry I don't have any encouraging words for you except that I care and that I prayed your prayer along with you.

God hears our humble prayers.

GBU

Real

Hi tkk4862.....as I read your shared words....I just feel this need within you and your hubby for not only healing but redemption through Christ. Your hubby is seeking something of the world through the lures of the enemy...and now is when you have to fight against Satan with continual prayers. God hears each of them...and He can defeat Satan for you in this matter. Please don't be angry with your husband...as this is what Satan wants...be loving...be kind....and most of all be compassionate....I know this has to be difficult...but you still have a chance in all of this...and that is to win against the enemy and see God work in your life. God has all the power you need...and if you have Faith in that power....then He can turn your husband away from the worldly things Satan is trying to drag him into.

Have you tried talking to your husband about this? Communication is very important...please don't allow yourself or your husband to ignore or pretend there isn't a problem...face the problem head on with God in the middle of your path.

Praying for you.

Take care

Feeling a little overwhelmed today, I do like this journaling it does help, i havent been on for 2 days now, as we had to leave town for the week. I'm taking a state exam for my license in medical billing and coding. Been doing alot of studying and reviews for it. My test is tomorrow afternoon. Yesterday and this morning has been tough. We did go to the local beach yesterday for a few hours to relax and my husband began to struggle as more people came out cause of the swim wear so we left, he did make a few short phone calls while i was studying (tried to sneak it in) didn't work so we talked and just held eachother. I prayed for the enemy to leave him alone, I know the Lord is bigger then all of this and it will be worked out, I do understand its a battle daily for my husband and that it is where I as a lover of the Lord have to intercede on his behalf. Christ is who brought us together and we are both aware of it and am glad for that. I get angry with the situation, all the bad in it, the wordly females, the lust, satan, lack of self control at times. Day by day, moment by moment with the Lord always there with comfort and strength.
Looking straight ahead in following Him

Nice post tkk
I like truth.
Thanks.

GBU

Real.......

Hi tkk4862....there you go hun...being the intercessor on your husband's behalf....you know there are a lot of Godly women in the world...who have had to sometimes be the strong one in Christ when their husbands were weak....but in the end if you don't give up on God....then you will see...He will move...and He will be the answer to this fight....hold on...you are doing awesome!

Take care

Thank you all for your kind support and words and prayers. We left a day early and spent a wonderful day last Tuesday as we were sitting down to dinner and the openess my husband had of where he's at and the acceptance of the words that I know the Holy Spirit was giving me at that moment for him was so healing for us both. We discussed the struggle, the need for him to stop looking back and he is now wanting help by the Holy Spirit to look forward and he stated that he does not need any longer the things that he grew up with and where he's been. The Lord is sooo good to us! Truth is freedom on this Independence Day. Thank you Lord for always showing me who you are. Thank you for putting this site before me as I was searching. You get all the glory, Amen.

tkk8462...the struggle may not be completely over yet...but it looks like it's getting easier...you keep fighting the good fight....God is proud of you and so am I.

*hugs*