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the 1thing that im really gulty about is when my friend committed suicide. i feel like ik i coulda saved her and it never woulda happened if i was there

She chose. This life is made miserable in so many ways by free choice. But she chose. You didn't.

Were you supposed to be there every minute? I don't know the circumstances - but this certainly sounds like you are taking on things that are not yours. Not even a little bit yours.

Paul consented to the murder of Christians - and God both forgave him and used him. God is bigger than any guilt.

You are forgiven. From whatever you need to be forgiven from. But your friend's suicide was almost certainly never on that list.