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well let me start from the begining. i move out of state for my boyfriend at the time n once i got there he was a totally different person after his mother died we argued all the time n i was just un happy but i stayed in fear of moving back n looking like a failure cause i couldnt make it and the fact that i gave up my job apartment and car to move with him. so he end up putting me out n i moved back ... but ever since that happen something in my heart hasnt been rite n ill been praying that that God helps me move pass the sitution n give me understanding cause i just dont see how someone can say that they love you and turn around and treat you worse then a random person on the street. i just seems like he is doing so good and im just misable. so i took a trip back there to see my nephew n i saw him with his new girlfriend and he didnt even spoke and i have to say that it really hurt mt feelings ... i really dont know how to get pass this... i cant help to keep day dreaming about us getting back together ...help

Hello Evelynwf

God bless you this day, and welcome to Christianity Oasis. I am so glad The Lord led you here.

I'm sorry you were hurt, but I'm so glad that you are turning to God so He can heal you and direct you. God does have a plan for you, and He knew the relationship with this man was not going to work out, but The Lord never left you, He was right there keeping watch and guiding you back home.

God will heal your hurting heart, and if His plans include a partner for you, He will bring that someone into your life. But, for now, work on your relationship with Jesus. I encourage you to read the 14 Day CCCC Study. It takes about an half hour each day. Here is the link to the Study: http://www.christianityoasis.com/CCCC/Forum.htm

I look forward to seeing you around the site, and getting to know you better. If you have any questions, please do not hesitate to ask.

God bless and keep you.
In Christ Jesus' love,
Sister Mack

Amen Mack.

evelynwf I am so sorry you are hurting. I wish I could wipe it all away. I can't but we know someone who can and will comfort you. The Holy Spirit promises to be our comforter.

The link our sister Mackenaw shared with you is a wonderful path to help you get closer to Him and understand who He is and what He has for you. I hope you are looking into it. I'm certain it will help.

Take care.