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Hello, everyone! I begin my counseling session 12 days ago. I must admit from the time I begin until now my healing process is well on the way. My topic says it all....Blessing through brokenness. I have heard this words before and even lived through various trail with my faith in the fact that God is working things out for my good and His glory. but, when it came to the matters of my relationship with the person I though would be my husband it was a different situation. I wanted it to turn out the way I had planned, I didn't want to let go, and my love for him was above all include, God. It wasn't until GOD allowed him to turn his back on me, cheat on me, again; used me for all that I had and deceive me again and again, that I realize I needed to be broken. BROKEN? You ask...yes, until I completely surrender all to him, including my desire to be married and the choice of my mate that HE begin to move me towards my blessing. No, I am not married(never been) and I am not dating at the moment. I still believe in love and a divine appointed marriage. God has a plan for my life and it is already designed according to His will. I have align my will to his. I am trusting and waiting on His very best for my life. In addition, He has brought me through the pain, sleepless nights, depression, weight loss, confusion, and other detrimental behaviors so I may encourage someone who maybe experiencing the same anguish. God through the HOLY SPIRIT will heal you heart and give you a hope, future and an expected end that will be good for you and glorify his name. Remember, to guard your thoughts, get involve with ministry, sing Christian songs, go to Christian events, surround yourself with the things of God.

Let the blessings of your brokenness flow unto others. To God be the Glory for the things He has done!!!

Wow, wow, Wow! What an amazing testimony...and now not only are you closer to God and aligning your life with His plan...you are telling others what God has done for you and can do for them...I know God is smiling...I hope you will continue to share your love of the Lord with others...as there are so many who are where you have been and need the Light to shine in their own life and God needs servants who are willing to carry the Light.

Keep working on your relationship with the Lord always. He loves you and He will bless you in great ways as long as you stay true to Him.

luv ya