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i wanna say thanks to everyone fo readin and replyin to my blogs..

today im goin thru some emotional battles im still tryin to keep my family together im still prayin and seekin the word of God the best way i can.. Im tryin to understand why my lady doesnt want this relationship anymore.. i kno we been thru alot and God always seen us thru the mess in our lives i believe he can see us thru this.. we have two beautiful kids and she always been there fo my oldest son since he was born so you can say we have three beautiful kids.. i respect the woman she is.. she is smart independant beautiful a god fearin woman a great mother and a wonderful companion.. we shared 8 yrs together standin by eachother..

i kno i kno i gotta keep my faith in God and i do i jus miss my bestfriend i miss holdin her at night i miss her tellin me she misses me and loves me

but i kno with god all things is possible

Hi jcruz...how are you doing working on your relationship with God? I read how much you miss your friend and love her etc...but you mentioned just a little about God...what's going on between you and God?

luv ya

Well the way I'm workin on my relationship with God is prayin tryin to live by his word takin tyme out of my day fo him.. Havin faith in him

Are you doing the counseling program here at the Oasis?

luv ya

No I havnt been do u have any suggestion

hiya jcruz welcome to Oasis.

I believe the counseling program mlg was referring to is this one:

http://www.christianityoasis.com/CCCC/Forum.htm

you will want to bookmark it so u can find it easily again. GBU brother and keep on seeking Him... also u can if u choose to share start a journal right here in this forum so others can follow and offer encouragement.

Yes jcruz the link breezy gave is the counseling program I suggest for you. It's a 14 day program...and it will help you get back on line regarding your friend...and also help you grow closer to Jesus. I look forward to your shared thoughts on the program.

luv ya

Hello J

Welcome aboard the Oasis

I second what the sisters said here . Tho I feel for you brother , to be in a spot like that is never pleasant , and worse , it is a sure shot of distancing us away from God ... if ... we let it consume our thoughts (which I'm sure it is already doing so with you) . But ... on the other hand , it is also an opportunity to grow closer to Him as well , and it all depends on choosing which direction we want to go . If "getting her back" is more important , I'm sure we will always find a way to do so , but at what cost ?
Something obviously went "wrong" somewhere right ? Lets find out where ... and that is EXACTLY what the steps here lead us to .

Here's the thing , by straightening out SPIRITUALLY , there'll be 50/50 chance of getting things back to the way they were ... we don't straighten out spiritually , the chances are zip , zero , nada ! it's already gone wrong .

Once again , welcome , glad to have you aboard , allow me to close with this , Well people don't need to go to The Doctor , you're not here reading all this by mistake .


In Christ , our Lord
vahn

thank you all fo your support