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why is that he's always in my dreams? why is it? what's that for?
anyway, it doesn't do me any wrong, i mean, i can still start up my day good, not having much affected by those dreams unlike before 'coz i used to cry everytime i got woke up from those nightmares (that's what it seems to me before).
what's the truth of having him in my dreams at night ALWAYS?

Hello Lei
Welcome to Oasis.

Dreams are tricky. They can be a way of the Lord speaking to us, a tool of the enemy to cause us to struggle, reflections of the past or of our worry and fears, or to much pizza the night before.

I don't know who "he" is. I am thinking "he" is someone who hurt you. A reflection of the past. Deal with the past and the nightmares fade.

I'm glad to hear the nightmares don't effect you like they use. Yet they are still there haunting you.

What ever "he" has done, the Lord can work for good. His grace is sufficient.

Hey lei, welcome to the counseling forum. One thing I noticed in what you shared is that the dreams are not affecting you as they used to. This means that you have Comfort with you.

I don't have the gift of interpreting dreams, but just wanted to stop by and let you know that you are loved.

Take care lei and God Bless you.

Hi lei Welcome to Oasis
I too don't know the he you are referring to , but thinking it is someone who hurt you .
I read just a few days ago that when we have been traumatised our mind begins be bring things up in dreams when it it ready to begin to deal with the issues that are causing us the trauma. Ask the Holy Spirit to be with you as you sleep and ask Him to guide your dreams and to give you the strength that you need to deal with the "him" you are refering.
Know that you are not alone and there are many here who are willing to listen and to try to help you.
Once again welcome to Oasis

hey lei..good to see you again! im echoing what's already been said here. although not knowing who "he" is, it sounds like someone from your past who hurt or took advantage of you. Unresoved times of our lives will come out in our dreams if we havent dealt with the past with the Lord. They may be memories and/or the Lord calling you to bring your past to Him so you and He can deal with it together. God bless you and prayers are rising for you.

in Jesus,
love momo