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To love and be loved. Don't forget everyone has baggage. Be prepared on this journey to marriage. Till death do us part.

How painful it is to suffer union and then seperation of body and spirit with someone you once loved.
Verses in regards to marriage
1 Corinthians 7
about Marriage

1 Corinthians 7:2
Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.
[color=#FF0000]1 Corinthians 7:9
But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn.[/color]
1 Corinthians 7:5
Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.
Hebrews 13:4
Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.

You think God doesnt know your intimate desires? You think God doesn't know what you will suffer in the flesh? You think God doesn't know what it takes for marriage to be upheld? (Two of you praying and Fasting)

Prayer and Fasting why? God holds together what satan tries to kill and destroy.God wants what is best for you.
Who is trying to destroy marriage? Satan the temptor
He likes to get you alone cuz he knows you will fall easier. This is why I believe many marriages are being destroyed today. It's not because of the generation. It's because of the times. We live in a time when satan is trying to destroy marriages, and families because to break that apart helps in killing and destroying.

Divorce have you tried to reconcile have you given it all you have. God knows everything about your situation whatever it be. Prayer is the answer and it always will be. Pray for your spouse and pray for yourself. Of course it was for better or worse and it got way worse. I believe in the bond of marriage. I believe in the power of two. However, what God wants first is you! There are many things that cause marriages to break what is more important to know is what holds them together. A marriage begans with foundation without that foundation it will suffer destruction. Satan will rip it apart and try to seperate two. Do you think for once your better than Job? Do you think your better than all the people mentioned in scripture? You think it won't happen to you or can't? It can it may be happening to you right now. Why not ask questions? Ask why God? WHY? Who do you think has your answers? Who do you think holds the keys to hearts? Who created you? Who formed you? Who knows you? GOD

Divorce will be a process of stages and there will be need for healing. You will need to forgive yourself and others. Give up everything to the Lord.

Forgive yourself and forgive others

Matthew 6:12
And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors.
Matthew 6:14
For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you:

Remember Gods instructions and promises
2 Corinthians 6:14
Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?

I urge any one suffering from seperation or divorce to seek counciling. Seek eldars, seek pastoral counciling, and be apart of the church. If at all possible your marriage can be saved or reconciled I'd hope that for any and all of you. There is suffering in walking away and being torn. There are people who suffer abuse of all kinds in marriage or out of marriage. Drug abuse, sexual abuse, cheating, child abuse, lies, and alllll kinds of other things. Yes, with God all things are possible. There is still hope. However, you can not change people. Don't forget God gives a gift that needs to be accepted. You can not chose if your spouse will accept. It's not okay to be abused, and God will make a way for you. God knows what you suffer and he knows what is best for you. Sometimes, we lose it all. The battle is not ours and we have to remember that. We have no power over another persons choices. All we can do is pray . Maybe, you feel like you failed. Maybe you feel like it was your fault. I urge you again go to God and tell him all your short comings. Tell him how you feel. Tell him what you need.

Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour.
10 For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up.

Your falling down and who do you have to help you up? WHO? If you don't know who your in big trouble. Ya, just suffered a blow to the heart and what are you going to do about it? Who is there? Who? GOD


Colossians 1:20
And, having made peace through the blood of his cross, by him to reconcile all things unto himself; by him, I say, whether they be things in earth, or things in heaven.

Matthew 22:30
For in the resurrection they neither marry, nor are given in marriage, but are as the angels of God in heaven.


God will help you understand legalities
1 Corinthians 6:12 All things are lawful unto me, but all things are not expedient: all things are lawful for me, but I will not be brought under the power of any.


[color=#FF0000]1 Corinthians 6:20 For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's. [/color]

God has it covered all of it. You will suffer in this world and you will suffer in the flesh. Once married it is so very hard to put away thoughts of a man or woman in your life. Your thoughts need to start with God. Your encouragement starts with God and all things can be healed and restored. Job lost it all but in the end he has more children, a wife, and possessions.
God hears our cries and if we continue to suffer even up until the day we are called home. There are many promises that await his children. Be prepared and smile there is hope be comforted by the church.

Gods children make up the church we stand together on common ground. Knowing Christ died for our sins. Be comforted. It is finished.

Psalms 23:4
Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me.

Psalms 71:21
Thou shalt increase my greatness, and comfort me on every side.


Praise the Lord
Glory to God
Amen